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    The Game Awards 2021 Game Reveals - What are you interested in?

    I usually just watch the game trailers after the fact. These award shows are a joke. They just go with whatever they think should have won and that is about it.
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    What Black Activist Groups Should Be Avoided?

    There are so many groups these days it seems. It is like gender identities with those tumblr people or something. lol I know some of them mean well, some do good, but a lot of them are just using skin color to get what they want when they want, they don't care about actually helping anything or...
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    Do you like getting tatted up?

    I have two small ones. Nothing to brag or showcase. I was young and wanted the experience. My skin is light enough to show them well but I never wanted to be covered in them. I have a friend who is, she is a white gal. Has them on her legs, back, both arms, etc. She must have spent over 5k on...
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    How the NFL Pushed Fans Like Me Away From the Game

    What pushed me away, as a woman, was the amount of abuse that the NFL swept under the rug. There were dudes straight beating the crap out of their girlfriends, wives, etc. and they would cover it up because they didn't want to risk losing a star player. I have heard of big names raping women...
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    I don't necessarily agree with their views politically but this was a

    I figured that much but what is she doing that is making her someone to talk about? That is what I don't get. She doesn't seem special to me. Just seems like another token mouthpiece for the right person or group to use to justify whatever narratives they want. Why do we even give people like...
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    When A Man Gives Up

    Some dudes are incels out of looks and wealth disadvantages, not because they want to be that way. They just get rejected. I feel like women have it easier in many regards to men in the dating world. Even the ugliest woman can find a dude to care for her but if you have no good looks or good...
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    Have you dated someone way out of your league?

    I mean looks aren't everything but they are something. I guess we sometimes date below a certain standard in other people's eyes. Like a friend of mine. Her fiance is... Well, he is not a good-looking guy but he treats her right and makes her happy so I am happy for her.
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    Relaxing video games

    Sims, Minecraft, Stardew Valley, Animal Crossing... Really anything that involves building, maintaining, or creating. I like games that allow me to play how I want and have the freedom to enjoy them in my own way. One aspect that I always enjoyed in certain games was building things. Had I not...
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    I don't necessarily agree with their views politically but this was a

    I don't really know anything about her but I always hear people talking her up or down. What is she doing that gets people on all sides talking? I don't get it.
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    PowerPoint Tips

    I haven't done a PowerPoint since I was in school. I am sure a lot has changed since then. It is good to have on the backburner though. Knowing stuff like this can come in handy when you want to pitch an idea or market something on your own.
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    So a friend wants to set me up...

    For sure. This is why we agreed to take things slow. I am not about to rush into something. I want to make sure we are right for each other and really get to know each other before anything advances.
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    Banned For Life

    I guess that is one way of outlawing it but still. There are far worse things in this world. Pretty sure alcohol alone causes more health issues in people than smoking. At least from what I have witnessed at the clinic. Both are bad for your body but people need to have the freedom to decide for...
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    Have you dated someone way out of your league?

    Looks have to factor into some degree but a lot of people put the attractiveness of a possible partner in other people's hands. Like will my family think he/she is good enough? Will my friends think he/she is hot enough? and so on. The one dude I dated, after my mother met him she goes "give...
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    Beans

    She is Hispanic so I never understood why people treated her like she was something special for black culture in general. That always confused me. Like she couldn't get her career going with her own group?
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    Respecting Privacy

    I don't mind joint accounts myself or my partner knowing the lock to my computer or phone. I have nothing to hide but I trust he won't go snooping for any reason. If this becomes an issue, then the locks go back on and we have things to work through. Everything has to happen within reason though.
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    Would you divorce her too?

    I guess some men just don't have it in them to raise a kid or bond with them. Some have issues with babies, toddlers, and kids but can make connections as they get older while older lose that connection as their children grow up. Others just never have it to begin with.
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    Beans

    Maybe the industry changed him. I heard this happened to a lot of dudes. Like they never would have but that money and that fame, well that opened them up to stuff and they got manipulated into enjoying things they never would have. Who knows!
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    Man Dies And Leaves Caught On Video

    The way I view "going to heaven" has always been different from other people's views, same with "going to hell". I think going to heaven involves being a part of the ever-expanding universe (space). Every new star is a person's soul entering heaven. When the world is cleansed, we will return...
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    Anyone get hit with some bad weather?

    Thankfully, no. I would not have wanted to be there for that. I can't imagine how bad it was being there with the damages and sirens going off. I have never experienced a tornado, just warnings and a few "almost tornados".
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    Access to their phones

    This was one of the things that I was talking about in my thread about privacy. I feel like people need to be able to have their privacy and be trusted. If you have to go snooping through each other's phones, then what is the point? If you are grown, act it and just voice your concerns. If they...