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    Southwest is heading south!

    I don't know if you all heard but they are having a lot of issues right now. There are flight attendants and pilots either going on strike or flat out quitting over the vaccine mandates. I applaud them for it but I feel like this is only going to result in what the rich people want. They don't...
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    You ever hear of this?

    I had a video playing the other day. Wasn't paying much attention to it but I heard what this guy saying about "significant other". He explained the role of that phrase in a relationship is "sign-if-i-can't" and it deals with credit. I never noticed it before this and it makes sense. Like when...
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    Bad shopping experiences online

    Since COVID-19 hit in 2020, a lot of people became regular online shoppers. I have been online shopping for most things (outside of groceries and things like that) since like 2010. I love it. It is convenient, easy, and more often than not I can find better deals online. I noticed though in the...
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    Why does Bill Gates own so much farmland?

    I don't know about you all but it seems a bit weird that Bill Gates of all people owns the highest acreage of farmland in the US. Source The thought of a super-rich old white dude owning this much farmland is a bit concerning. He is up to something.
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    What is your take on rappers getting political?

    I'll post a few examples below. I want to know what you all think on it. Like I think the culture in America has fractured and is dominated by self-indulgence through consumerism and greed. Relationships and marriages are failing daily, people aren't raising their kids, the government itself is...
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    Anyone have any experience with moving?

    I mentioned before that I am hoping to get my own spot and put money down on a house next year. I have been looking into options and talking to some real estate people. I don't have a lot of stuff but looking around, I feel like I am going to be so overwhelmed when I move. Does anyone have...
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    Black Success & Uplifting Stories

    I thought this would be a good thread to have. A way to share news stories and talk about people who have done some pretty amazing things. I am ashamed to say I am only just hearing about the work of Mashudu Tshifularo. I want to start with him for this thread. You can read more about him...
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    Being friends first?

    I always liked the concept of being friends with someone first before dating them. It establishes a bond without the entanglements of lust, romance, and infatuation. It doesn't come easy though. Most of the time, you will know if you are interested in making something more or not right away and...
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    Do you do anything on/for Halloween?

    When I was younger, I would dress up and go door to door for candy. Standard childhood experience. As an adult, I really don't do anything. I am not into the party scene and as much as I do enjoy dressing up, I am not down to go to parties. If I happen to work on Halloween, I will wear some...
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    Pandora Papers

    Did anyone hear about this? Someone I know mentioned it and I was looking into it more. I can't say I am surprised. What worries yet fascinates me is this mention of a "shadow economy". I always felt like there were things going on that we everyday people have no clue about. The fact that the...
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    A good brand of leather sneakers for men?

    I want to get my brother a pair for his birthday. He is turning 30 at the end of the month. I know he has always wanted a solid pair of leather sneakers but I have no clue who makes what and what is the best when it comes to men's sneakers. Anyone got some suggestions?
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    Do you hold any traditional values when it comes to relationships?

    I am fairly traditional. I believe the man should be the financial supplier and the woman should be the homemaker. This is not to say this is how it can work out for everyone. In many cases, both people in the relationship need to work. Some women want careers as well and there is nothing wrong...
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    Do you have a fish tank?

    I have a small 20-gallon tank. Been keeping it going for almost 3 years now. I have some of that moss growing on a piece of wood in there, looks like a small tree. I have a few other live plants as well. I did have gravel and half soil. I am considering upgrading and getting a larger one but I...
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    The 1960s - Over 40% of black families owned their own businesses, what happened?

    That was almost 1 in every 2 families having their own business. I have to wonder what happened here. Now it is something like less than 8%. I also was reading the statistics for marriage and co-op parenting. At the same time, 85% of black households were married or co-opting parents. Thomas...
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    NBA players saying "no" to vaccination, thoughts on this?

    I heard Kyrie Irving is among many star players out there saying "no" to the vaccine. Many of them say they had covid and have no need for the vaccine or they are choosing to wait until more testing has been done. There are some doing it as a political statement as well saying they are against...
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    What do you think are the keys to a successful marriage?

    I feel like marriage still has value in this world and when you are paired with the right person for you, it makes life easier and more worth living. I know there are a lot of bad examples out there and reasons why it would seem best to avoid marriage but for me, I think it is an important...
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    Where do you think the best spot to live in the US is?

    In regards to states, cities, policies, freedom, wealth, opportunities, education, and all that - What spot would you say is best to live in, in the USA? I was trying to figure this out a few months ago. It seems like each area has its positives and its negatives. Like in Wyoming. Your dollar...
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    Thoughts on Rihanna's shirt?

    I heard about this yesterday and only just looked it up now. I thought I would make a thread for it. What do you all think about it? What do you think her motive is for wearing it?
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    Examples of positive feminine energy!

    I want to hear from both the ladies and gents on this one. What would you consider to be good examples of positive feminine energy that makes women more appealing to men and generally more likable to others? It seems like not many people these days understand what true femininity is or what...
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    Do you think that Mario movie will be any good?

    They released the cast for it. I am not sure how I feel about it. I grew up playing Mario as a kid and have so many fond memories of the different games on the different consoles. I still go back and play the old school ones. I did watch that live actions Mario movie they did back in the '90s...