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    Are you giving your man what he needs and wants or are you giving him what YOU think he needs and wants?

    In my experience, I'd like to say I know what they need but I really don't have a clue. I am not a man. I just know what I should focus on as a woman to have a stable relationship. Assuming I am with the right man, me being loyal, affectionate, caring, and willing to make his home life the best...
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    love at first sight

    I believe in lust at first sight. I think lust plays a heavy role in the start of any relationship but lust comes and goes. I like the concept of there being different types of love but the ultimate form of love is a choice. A choice to be with someone, care for them and have their back. The...
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    Ladies, If you could only have one out of a man, what would it be: Excitement or Consistency?

    Consistency. I have been with exciting and unpredictable men and I am too old to be dealing with the drama that comes with it. I am looking for a man to settle down with and start a family. If ladies enjoy chasing the wild and free stallions, that is on them. They can have that rodeo! lol I...
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    Do you do anything on/for Halloween?

    When I was younger, I would dress up and go door to door for candy. Standard childhood experience. As an adult, I really don't do anything. I am not into the party scene and as much as I do enjoy dressing up, I am not down to go to parties. If I happen to work on Halloween, I will wear some...
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    Do you believe in ghosts and the paranormal?

    I believe in demons. Anything you can see on this planet that isn't in the physical realm is a demon, to me at least. I don't want anything to do with them. I have seen some "familiar spirits" and have been attacked before. Not a fun time. Was sleeping at a friend's house and was being pulled...
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    Harmattan's Funniest Home Videos

    Never had moose meat. I had ostrich though. I do not recommend that. That meat is fowl... Pun slightly intended. lol As for that moose, I would not want to mess around with him. I have seen some pretty jacked-up bucks around here and I just turn right around when I see them at the park. lol
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    Two Pitbulls finally attack the right person

    I hate that most places will put dogs down for doing the work. Like the only reason I want a dog is for protection. If someone breaks into my house, I fully expect that mf'er to go all-out wolf mode and make a meal out of the intruder. That is why I like the working class dogs. They are heavy on...
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    Biden Signs Last Minute Deal To Avert A Government Shutdown, And Gives Away Our Reparations In The Process.

    Two wings, same bird. Been saying it for years. The dems want to rob the poor to feed the rich and the reps want to get a little taste of the wealth while appearing to be more presentable with "integrity". I don't trust anyone in this government. Even someone with the best intentions gets...
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    Pandora Papers

    Did anyone hear about this? Someone I know mentioned it and I was looking into it more. I can't say I am surprised. What worries yet fascinates me is this mention of a "shadow economy". I always felt like there were things going on that we everyday people have no clue about. The fact that the...
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    A good brand of leather sneakers for men?

    Those do look nice but I think he is more after sneaker style shoes rather than boots. Something like this:
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    A good brand of leather sneakers for men?

    I want to get my brother a pair for his birthday. He is turning 30 at the end of the month. I know he has always wanted a solid pair of leather sneakers but I have no clue who makes what and what is the best when it comes to men's sneakers. Anyone got some suggestions?
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    Harmattan's Funniest Home Videos

    That bull's cup runneth over, that was his downfall! I have seen this with other animals mating/breeding. If they get too spoiled with choice, they can't concentrate. It is in them to spread the seed but that seed runs thin if they are looking to crop up too many fields LOL
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    Harmattan's Funniest Home Videos

    I am more of a cat person but if I had to choose a dog, it would be a German Shepherd. I mean all German working dogs are legit but nothing tops a German Shepherd for me. My gran had one when I was growing up and I loved that dog. Always begged my mom to get one. She ended up letting me get a...
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    Anyone here ever join the military?

    The numbers are definitely inflated. I am sure the LGBT people are more prevalent in places like San Fran or just Cali in general but still. I know there are not a lot of them and yet everything we say and do we need to constantly keep them in mind. I get that they are a minority but in the US...
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    Patterson, NJ School Lunches Worse Than Prison

    I bet. I am not there yet but I am sure it will open my eyes to a lot more that I didn't realize growing up. I complain from time to time about my mom but I know even in her stubbornness, she has got my back more than anyone else.
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    What do you think are the keys to a successful marriage?

    I am more curious about that as well. Being married 22 years is a huge deal. You must have the right foundation for sure. It seems like so many marriages these days don't last 5 years. I think they fail due to one or both people not being faithful or financial issues.
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    How much of your dating life do you share with friends?

    I know some like this as well, work with a few. I am like girl you need to stop talking to me and talk to your man. lol I don't share much with people. I like to keep things private. I think that is just being respectful.
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    Modern white degeneracy irl and on the internet.

    It is an identity crisis. I wish I could find it but one of them was legit pretending to eat their dead neighbor's dog... They believed they were a wolf. There is a lot of them. It freaks me out that teens and people in their 20s are running around thinking this way.
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    Anyone here ever join the military?

    I don't even think it is 5%, at least not in the US. It is like 3% and trans people don't even make up a full %. They are going to screw up so much of this country as if it doesn't already have problems. I really feel like this is on purpose and I am not opposed to blaming China for it. They put...
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    Patterson, NJ School Lunches Worse Than Prison

    Absolutely. I didn't realize it until I was older but she looked out more for me than a lot of other parents out there. It is a damn shame kids have to grow up eating this trash. The school systems are a mess.