Saving this pic and using it anytime I see this nonsense. In fact, going to send it to one of my friends right now cause she has been talking ish about wanting white dudes recently. I feel like this disease is spreading.
So, every other non white woman don't need to get instructions on how to get a white man EXCEPT black women? First, that's insulting to black women. Second, its cap. Black women have always been able to date white men. They just didn't want to in the numbers we are seeing today. Third, the very fact she's saying black women need to alter their personality to get a white man, by definition, its the sista with the problem. Asian, Latina, all other non black, non white woman don't alter their personality to get white men.
This is all performative. Its partially about sending signals to white men to hit her up. If you are fairly attractive you can get white, black, purple whatever man.
Lastly, there are two kinds of black women who date white men, generally.
First, those that prefer black men but are open to non black men if a cool non Black man hollas, White, Latina, Arab. Most sistas have dated at least one non black man. Been that way for ages. Usually nothing comes of it. The white man who has a date with a sista who knows prefers black men, has to come correct. He knows that. He's respectful, etc. He will never drop a racial slur in her presence.
Then there is the hard core swirler who only dates white men. The white men who date them already know they are thirsty. These are the types of white men who will test her limits on racial shyt. Drop a n*gga' as a kite to see what happens. He might play a rap song in the car with a lot of n*gga in it, Snoop, Biggie, whatever, sing the lyrics and see what happens. He'll smash and role play calling her b*tch or my n*gga and see what happens.
Lastly, you notice how the swirlers ONLY talk about getting with a white man. No Latino men. No Asian men. No Arab men. Why not? The fact is these other men don't want to date Black women in anywhere close to the same numbers as white men. I have seen the stats. White men marry black women the least. They marry Asian and Latina women more than twice the rate. In the 2010 census I think the number of Asian men with Black wives was like 9,000. White men marry about 200k Black women a year. That's the lowest of any women: white, asian, latina. White men marry about 51 million women. 200k sisters.
Black men marry 4.5 million women, 4 million of which are Black women. The swirlers do a lot of lying and playing with stats etc. Any guy will smash you. Guys in the military will smash the local girls at bases all over the world. Put a base in India they will smash the locals, even though most men don't find them attractive. Men will smash a willing woman. Marriage though? Hmm...that's very different. Swirlers can date white men. That's not a problem. It's not a flex. Men, white men, black men, will date anyone thirsty for your race. These swirlers aren't getting rings though. And many of the ones that do are married to beta white men that white women don't want or will marry. Sage Steele and Halle Berry both married broke azz personal trainers. Halle has to pay her ex 15k a month.
...;oh, forgot. Swirlers can do them. I just don't want them or the hard core bed bucks who talk shyt about all black women, generalizing to be able to sneak back in like they've been down the whole time. They will be the first ones starting mess.