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The only people who get shamed for this and are white are Karens and that is a recent thing.If you lose your temper in public as a black woman, they just assume you are about to fly off the hinges and start physically assaulting people. I have seen it in action. I have gotten mad about stuff and soon as my voice raises, white people start avoiding me as if I am going to start something with someone who has nothing to do with my situation. They just tense up and act like I am some violent person. I used to get upset about it but it is not even worth it. They will never understand it.
The only people who get shamed for this and are white are Karens and that is a recent thing.
If you lose your temper in public as a black woman, they just assume you are about to fly off the hinges and start physically assaulting people. I have seen it in action. I have gotten mad about stuff and soon as my voice raises, white people start avoiding me as if I am going to start something with someone who has nothing to do with my situation. They just tense up and act like I am some violent person. I used to get upset about it but it is not even worth it. They will never understand it.