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Dating Is Weird
I hate to say it but I have gotten like this. Like I don't like to be butt smacked after a while but if he doesn't do it, then I think negative things. I think a lot of us women have been conditioned into some weird ways of thinking lol
Really? Let that man be a man and grab it. It makes him feel like a king after getting beat up by this white world. A glimmer of hope is all it is.lol I'm the same way. I hate it but if he doesn't do it, I assume somethings wrong
What is it that makes you not like it after a while? (I don't do it often to my wife) but I will ask her to "stand right there for a sec" if she has on some tight pants. Not all the time though.
The novelty makes it cool in the beginning but if you ain't holding it down and you slacking in other areas that novelty wears off and you're basically just assaulting her.
I look at it as she grants you permission to smack her rear end in the beginning but then you gotta continuously earn it. A lot of these dudes ain't taking her out on dates by month 6, they ain't doing the same thing they did to keep her...so why she gonna keep giving him the same privileges?
I look at it as she grants you permission to smack her rear end in the beginning but then you gotta continuously earn it. A lot of these dudes ain't taking her out on dates by month 6, they ain't doing the same thing they did to keep her...so why she gonna keep giving him the same privileges?
In the beginning, the relationship is still fresh and it is a compliment without words. But after a while, it can just be annoying if it is done all the time. I don't know, some of us women are weird. lol