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Do Black Men Protect Black Women?

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    We hear the phrase "Protect Black Women" but are Black Women truly being singled out and neglected? Are Black Women under attack? Or are they being used as pawns on the Chessboard of the Supremacists? We discuss this and more in this video.
     
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    Great video.
    I'm old enough to tell you that when I was a teen a question about protecting our women was never asked, brought up or thought about. It was an automatic given. The difference between now and back then (80's).... is the caliber of women. The question should be "Do you deserve to be protected"?

    If men see women who don't respect men or themselves what would be the value to a man to protect them? The F'd up thing about this whole Question... is it's only our group (Black people) who debates this topic. Sad.
     
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    Blackgravity said:
    Great video.
    I'm old enough to tell you that when I was a teen a question about protecting our women was never asked, brought up or thought about. It was an automatic given. The difference between now and back then (80's).... is the caliber of women. The question should be "Do you deserve to be protected"?

    If men see women who don't respect men or themselves what would be the value to a man to protect them? The F'd up thing about this whole Question... is it's only our group (Black people) who debates this topic. Sad.
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    Remember that this drivel was injected into our community like Jay said in the video. This is social engineering and we have to talk through it to get through it.

    There’s a lot of social factors in play but I agree with the overall sentiment that Black men do protect Black women but women have to choose between protection and wanting to be the leader, you can’t be both.
     
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    If people don't know by now how this started maybe they should remain on the sidelines. No matter how it started the fact this is still up for debate in 2021 is the issue. Females want to be dudes, dudes wan to be females nothing is "normal" any more but for some reason the black men are expected to keep tradition and act accordingly.

    it's simple, you want Black men to protect Black women, give us a reason to. I'm not going to risk jail, a fight my life to protect someone who shows utter contempt for Black men. HYON. Fortunately there are more Black women who are realizing this and changing how they perceive Black men.
     
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    I will say it like it is... A lot of women act like damn fools and expect men to have their backs. If you are out there acting like you are too good for your man or you don't need him, why should he feel obligated to protect you or even respect you? Ladies need to stop objectifying themselves and embrace their feminine nature. Stop trying to act like you are hard.

    In terms of color, black men have become the most disposable in America. You see this in unfair trials, law enforcement, and with dating. Look how black ladies treat black men... The majority of them don't respect them so they show no respect back. A lot of boys are raised by women who hate men on top of it. This only shapes their worldview to see women as a problem.

    There are good black men out there and good black women but you have to dodge a sea of clowns and foolishness to find each other.
     
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    I will say it like it is... A lot of women act like damn fools and expect men to have their backs. If you are out there acting like you are too good for your man or you don't need him, why should he feel obligated to protect you or even respect you? Ladies need to stop objectifying themselves and embrace their feminine nature. Stop trying to act like you are hard.

    In terms of color, black men have become the most disposable in America. You see this in unfair trials, law enforcement, and with dating. Look how black ladies treat black men... The majority of them don't respect them so they show no respect back. A lot of boys are raised by women who hate men on top of it. This only shapes their worldview to see women as a problem.

    There are good black men out there and good black women but you have to dodge a sea of clowns and foolishness to find each other.
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    Amen sis preach. Can’t be acting ratchet and stank and be surprised when no one has your back. If you want to be a ratchet hoe and want to be protected, get a pimp.
     
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    Blackgravity said:
    If people don't know by now how this started maybe they should remain on the sidelines. No matter how it started the fact this is still up for debate in 2021 is the issue. Females want to be dudes, dudes wan to be females nothing is "normal" any more but for some reason the black men are expected to keep tradition and act accordingly.

    it's simple, you want Black men to protect Black women, give us a reason to. I'm not going to risk jail, a fight my life to protect someone who shows utter contempt for Black men. HYON. Fortunately there are more Black women who are realizing this and changing how they perceive Black men.
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    I agree I just like to keep the history intact too. It ain’t like our women changed out of nowhere shit was a deliberate attack on us.
     
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    Blackgravity said:
    If people don't know by now how this started maybe they should remain on the sidelines. No matter how it started the fact this is still up for debate in 2021 is the issue. Females want to be dudes, dudes wan to be females nothing is "normal" any more but for some reason the black men are expected to keep tradition and act accordingly.

    it's simple, you want Black men to protect Black women, give us a reason to. I'm not going to risk jail, a fight my life to protect someone who shows utter contempt for Black men. HYON. Fortunately there are more Black women who are realizing this and changing how they perceive Black men.
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    So protecting us is conditional? What kind of man is willing to abandon his women especially in a racist country like this.
     
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    Tati 304 said:
    So protecting us is conditional? What kind of man is willing to abandon his women especially in a racist country like this.
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    Yes. Life is conditional
     
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    Jay said:

    We hear the phrase "Protect Black Women" but are Black Women truly being singled out and neglected? Are Black Women under attack? Or are they being used as pawns on the Chessboard of the Supremacists? We discuss this and more in this video.
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    I liked the visual you included Jay, it made it simple to understand your point. To your point ladies needing to get men who can plan, I’m in total agreement. We just need more men who can plan. There are too many busters out here.
     
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    Yes. Life is conditional
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    I don't agree. A man should always protect his woman no matter what.
     
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    Tati 304 said:
    I don't agree. A man should always protect his woman no matter what.
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    How do you disagree with a fact? 😂

    You want it one way but it’s another. No one owes you anything you didn’t earn.
     
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    How do you disagree with a fact? 😂

    You want it one way but it’s another. No one owes you anything you didn’t earn.
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    Who says its a fact though? I don't agree that it's a fact.
     
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    Tati 304 said:
    Who says its a fact though? I don't agree that it's a fact.
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    If you don’t think how you behave affects how people treat you then you don’t live in reality.

    You wanting it to be unconditional doesn’t make it so. If it was actually unconditional then there would be no debate. It would just be. This conversation wouldn’t even be happening.
     
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