Yeah I think the only reason it'd be cheating is in those cases where someone is watching more porn than spending time with their boyfriend/girlfriend. That's when I think things need to be addressed. But if it's just a once in a while kinda thing, I don't think most people would care.
I can see that. Especially when a couple create scenarios from said porn, and in turn hurt their relationship because of it. I wouldn't fret if my girlfriend was into watching porn, but if it was a daily thing, or was a habit, then I don't think I'd be into that. Once in a while is fine, but every day, or every waking minute, nah.
I don't view that as similar. I have many celebrity crushes, and I think I'd still have those crushes even if I meet a woman. I don't think it's a big deal, considering how women fawn over male celebrities all the time, even while being married, so I don't think it's as close as porn though.
That's fair. I don't think it's cheating either. I don't care too much if it's once in a while though. like If my girlfriend decided to watch porn, it wouldn't bother me. But if it was something she did often, and wouldn't stop, then I know there's a problem. Same as if I was watching porn, if I was watching too much of it, that will for sure put a strain on my relationship.
No, that's totally fair. If you don't want your man watching porn, I think you have every right to let him know your feelings on that. If I had a girlfriend right now, you bet I would rather be with her than watching porn. I second finding someone who is into it as well.
