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I think it is a topic people should be discussing early on in the relationship. A lot of people sidestep stuff like this and don't address it until it comes up and then one person is left feeling bad, guilty, and clueless and the other one is hurt and feels betrayed. I don't know why so many people don't talk about this. This is the kind of thing I would be asking on a third date before I waste any more of my time.