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I agree that your past experiences help you understand what you want. I am a huge believer in that we attract the energy we give out and all relationships are really mirrors of ourselves.When we know what we don't want, it's easier to narrow down what we do want.And in relationships it can be very nuanced. So for example. I realized that the men I was meeting had a very alpha male traits. I valued that. However these men also were not great communicators of their emotions, as well as other traits that I felt reduced me to "just a woman".Once I became more introspective and aware of that. I set my intentions and started meeting men who seem to have better communication skills, ability to express emotions and I felt like a partner. However these men were missing the traits that I did like from the "alpha male" experiences. So I had to tweak my understanding of what I value in a partner.It's an evolution and I believe all relationships are for our betterment. All about perceptions.
I agree that your past experiences help you understand what you want. I am a huge believer in that we attract the energy we give out and all relationships are really mirrors of ourselves.
When we know what we don't want, it's easier to narrow down what we do want.
And in relationships it can be very nuanced. So for example. I realized that the men I was meeting had a very alpha male traits. I valued that. However these men also were not great communicators of their emotions, as well as other traits that I felt reduced me to "just a woman".
Once I became more introspective and aware of that. I set my intentions and started meeting men who seem to have better communication skills, ability to express emotions and I felt like a partner. However these men were missing the traits that I did like from the "alpha male" experiences. So I had to tweak my understanding of what I value in a partner.
It's an evolution and I believe all relationships are for our betterment. All about perceptions.