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It depends on what she is looking for Sis. I look at life in chapters and if they are in the same chapter it can work. I break it into 3 major groups: Build, Grow, and Maintain. If he is in Grow and she is in Maintain it will not work. If he is in Build and she is in any other stage it will not work. Also, if he wants kids, it’s dead in the water. Why does she want to cut it off, whats her concern?