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I agree. And I often wonder how my being a woman affects my reactions and thought process. As a black woman, I do not feel secure to be honest, as far as my safety goes. But it's my family that keeps my calm in these situations. The fact that I have to be there for them and I want to see my kids every morning smiling at me. That's what keeps me calm. But that is used against us as parents. It's very stressful