From my view regarding today's women, specifically sisters.
The feminist movement and the media has sisters thinking they can do without a man, any man. And have gotten many to exchange seeking femininity to being seemed as 'strong' (and independent). It's been repeated so much I over use the term when I talk about women I like. We want to mean mentally, spiritually, emotionally strong but to the media they want us to also think of physically strong like a man to some extent.
Young sisters, especially the cute ones are having way too much casual sex. This starts in HS and even middle school and continues into early 20s to mid-ish 20s. They are giving up sex for attention. Even the fine ones.
Sisters are passing over decently ambitious men early and the smart women are catching them as they are in production mode. These can be smart sisters, white or other non black women.
Sisters are getting near 30 or in early 30s and can't find enough eligible black men to marry. The hard 7s, 7.5s on up will find men to date even be their boyfriend but no ring. The swirlers in their 20s are getting either run through or being in serial monogamous relationships but the men white men who are producing aren't going to marry them. The stats say this. 50 million white men marry, and only 168,000 are to black women. They marry roughly 500,000 Asian women and roughly 500,000 non black, non Asian women. Black men married 4.6 million women, 4 million of them to black women.
Finally, sisters, through social media mainly (tik tok, youtube, comment sections like Yahoo or whatever) are trying to shame black men, especially eligible black men (good job/ income, emotionally/morally decent) into accepting situations they don't want: single moms. women their age but they want a younger woman. A 35 year old guy is looking for a woman under 30 usually, maybe 31 or 32 if she ticks off boxes. It is what it is.
At some point, it will come to a standstill. Men of reasonable means will always have options. Either the sisters that are left who didn't get a body count higher than a Navy SEAL team. Or they will marry non black women. Or they will go overseas for a black, asian or latina woman. You can't shame men into marrying who they don't want.
Finally, the divorce laws. I have a friend, a lawyer, millionaire, has a beautiful 4 bedroom house, and a rental in a nice area. He said he will not get married and risk some sister divorcing him and some white man who doesn't like him (the judge) more than happy to give her years of his hard work. Argue with him or that thinking all you want, you will not get anywhere. In fact, he'll view arguing he is wrong as proof, because it seems logical to him and you are capping to trick him.
