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I think it is important to value yourself and never feel like you are settling for less than you feel you deserve. You want to be selective but not to a point where no one is good enough for you, if that makes sense. Like for me, I am looking to find someone who wants commitment, children, marriage, etc. I am done dating around. So I am being even more selective these days than I was when I was younger and I think that is a good thing.