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The overall issue is that there is no boundary set so she’s technically not violating yet. What you first must do is establish a boundary to make it clear to her what she should and should not discuss with you and how she should do it.Be firm but diplomatic, “Hey K, I know this is a tough time in your life and I’ve been there myself but I would like if going forward we kept our conversations on a more positive note? I’m always open to discuss the great things going on in our lives and things we are doing to better ourselves.”Don’t attack her, don’t accuse her, keep it about you and how you want to be treated.
The overall issue is that there is no boundary set so she’s technically not violating yet. What you first must do is establish a boundary to make it clear to her what she should and should not discuss with you and how she should do it.
Be firm but diplomatic, “Hey K, I know this is a tough time in your life and I’ve been there myself but I would like if going forward we kept our conversations on a more positive note? I’m always open to discuss the great things going on in our lives and things we are doing to better ourselves.”
Don’t attack her, don’t accuse her, keep it about you and how you want to be treated.
