I try to be as cordial and diplomatic as possible. I'm at the point where if I spot stuff early and I'm like 'Nah, I'm good'. I start out saying she is a cool girl, and that she will have no problem finding someone (whether its true or not), I also say that its not either ours fault, but I don't see enough of a vibe, etc to proceed but its a small world so lets just end cordially so if we ever run into each other again, there isn't animosity, etc. I always end it with, Good luck, Stay blessed.
For the fellas. She will show your break up if its in message form to her friends. No matter how respectful you are they are gonna do that 'gurl, he wasn't about sh*t anyway" even though inside they will say 'This brotha sounds hella cool, she must be tripping' .
Finally, for a lot of women, I don't want to say most but it seems like most. It doesn't matter how you end it. You can be as nice as whatever, women aren't accustomed to it, especially cute ones and they will trip. They will try and argue and vicious to get you to cuss them out so they can justify that you were really ain't sh*t. Don't fall for it. When I get that back I take it as a sign that I did make the right choice.
I don't respond, I usually have to end up blocking the chick. Because women want to always be the one that ends it and you're supposed to accept it and not trip. True, but not if the roles are reversed. A very few will appreciate it. But a lot will cuss you out "You probably like white girl" , "You can't handle a real woman" Or they question your masculinity or sexuality to trigger you. I laugh inside....half will hit me up at some point after they out with Pookie and Ray Ray got ran through and either 1. act like they never tripped or 2. be genuinely sorry but once I'm done...I'm done.
