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SnakeyG · 9/20/21

I spend around $$700-$800 a month on sex

porn does nothing for me, I need/get the real thing.

it's messed up my marriage, me and the wifey going through therapy at the moment, it's working, tho she being over dramatic with the shit.

only thing is, I don't think i WANT to stop tho.

i can't describe it ya'll.

It's something about setting it up, meeting with a trick, and taking care of businesses.

I feel like a King. Smashing a broad then coming home to the wifey, and her being none the wiser.

But at some point, something gotta give, you know? Like I don't think I want to stop, but this can't go on forever

Jay · 9/20/21

Just be safe about it and be honest about what you need from any person you're dating and I don't think it's bad. Just as long as it doesn't stop you from being a functional member of society. When you're giving up your rent/mortgage money to trick then that is a serious issue

Kanu · 9/20/21

Sounds like you have mental issues, or demons on you.

Red Velvet · 9/20/21

Did posting this make you feel better? Serious question.

SnakeyG · 9/20/21

Red Velvet said:
Did posting this make you feel better? Serious question.

I figure I'm amongst family so why not.

but if this is deemed inappropriate or goes against the guidelines of the forum, then my apologies.

De'Londa Brice said:
Sounds like you have mental issues, or demons on you.

Oh I don't understand the mental issue angle, I'm aware of what i'm doing.

Red Velvet · 9/20/21

SnakeyG said:
I figure I'm amongst family so why not.

but if this is deemed inappropriate or goes against the guidelines of the forum, then my apologies.

Oh I don't understand the mental issue angle, I'm aware of what i'm doing.

No, I don't think there is anything wrong with it, you're being honest. What do you feel like you're going to do?

Kanu · 9/20/21

SnakeyG said:
I figure I'm amongst family so why not.

but if this is deemed inappropriate or goes against the guidelines of the forum, then my apologies.

Oh I don't understand the mental issue angle, I'm aware of what i'm doing.

Every addiction is rooted in unresolved mental issues.

Jay · 9/20/21

SnakeyG said:
I spend around $$700-$800 a month on sex

porn does nothing for me, I need/get the real thing.

it's messed up my marriage, me and the wifey going through therapy at the moment, it's working, tho she being over dramatic with the shit.

only thing is, I don't think i WANT to stop tho.

i can't describe it ya'll.

It's something about setting it up, meeting with a trick, and taking care of businesses.

I feel like a King. Smashing a broad then coming home to the wifey, and her being none the wiser.

But at some point, something gotta give, you know? Like I don't think I want to stop, but this can't go on forever

The best thing for you is to be real with yourself and everyone around you.

You need to be honest about if you just like sex or are addicted
You need to be honest about if your wife will EVER be enough for you.
You may need to get therapy solo to figure out the answers to both.
If you feel like you're still going to have to get your fix then you don't need to be in a marriage with someone who is expecting monogamy.

You doing this shit in the shadows only gonna hurt you in the end. One day you gonna slip up hit the slammer for soliciting and then your wife gonna take HALF of everything.

SnakeyG · 9/20/21

De'Londa Brice said:
Every addiction is rooted in unresolved mental issues.

In your opinion what do you think they could be?

Kanu · 9/20/21

SnakeyG said:
In your opinion what do you think they could be?

I don't know much about this subject, how long do you have this addiction?

SnakeyG · 9/20/21

De'Londa Brice said:
I don't know much about this subject, how long do you have this addiction?

Way before I was married.

Mastamind · 9/20/21

SnakeyG said:
Way before I was married.

Why didn't you resolve these issues before you were married? It's never too late, but having any issues like that unresolved are dangerous.

Jay · 9/20/21

SnakeyG said:
Way before I was married.

Why did you get married then?

Maximum · 9/20/21

SnakeyG said:
I spend around $$700-$800 a month on sex

porn does nothing for me, I need/get the real thing.

it's messed up my marriage, me and the wifey going through therapy at the moment, it's working, tho she being over dramatic with the shit.

only thing is, I don't think i WANT to stop tho.

i can't describe it ya'll.

It's something about setting it up, meeting with a trick, and taking care of businesses.

I feel like a King. Smashing a broad then coming home to the wifey, and her being none the wiser.

But at some point, something gotta give, you know? Like I don't think I want to stop, but this can't go on forever

What kinda chicks you spending that amount on?

Troy · 9/20/21

Maximum said:
What kinda chicks you spending that amount on?

A $50 bitch 16 times.

Nesut · 9/21/21

Does this nigga have a coon as his avatar? Keep and eye out on son.

thinking

sourgrapes · 9/21/21

Maybe this is the inner nurse in me but have you considered getting your hormone and blood levels checked out?

A lot of men and women who have sex addictions actually have issues with both that can be fixed with diet and medication. It might be worth looking into.

Maximum · 9/21/21

Troy said:
A $50 bitch 16 times.

Jay · 9/21/21

Maximum said:

Nesut · 9/22/21

Maximum said:

Is a $100 bitch twice a week better?

Maximum · 9/22/21

Nesut said:
Is a $100 bitch twice a week better?

I mean, the higher the price the better looking the woman (allegedly) so...... yeah?

Lamont · 9/22/21

Maximum said:
I mean, the higher the price the better looking the woman (allegedly) so...... yeah?

I would venture to guess that a man of such proclivities values quantity over quality. The cheaper the whore and the more gutter the location, the better. He probably gets more high off the tricking than he does off the sex.

Bruh Man · 9/22/21

this nigga got a season pass to motel 6

Czharcus · 10/1/21

SnakeyG said:
In your opinion what do you think they could be?

Lack. It comes from a subconscious feeling of lack. It's normal. We all have it, but most of us don't know it because it can manifest in infinite amount of ways to various degrees. Our own dysfunction runs concurrent with everyone else's so we don't recognize it. If you live in a crazy house with crazy people, how would you know you're crazy? You've been blessed with "extreme crazy" so you know something is a little off.

It's a call for you to figure out what you believe you lack and give it to yourself.

Goldilocks · 10/3/21

Sounds reckless, irresponsible and the opposite of what a husband should be. What if you get an STD or get arrested and your picture is posted online or in the news or you get killed. The shame you would bring on your family would be too much. What you are doing is not okay in any way shape or form.

Troy · 10/3/21

Goldilocks said:
Sounds reckless, irresponsible and the opposite of what a husband should be. What if you get an STD or get arrested and your picture is posted online or in the news or you get killed. The shame you would bring on your family would be too much. What you are doing is not okay in any way shape or form.

He has no shame girl

Invincible1914 · 10/7/21

Kanu said:
Sounds like you have mental issues, or demons on you.

Or during sex his body releases hormones in high amounts that he has become chemically dependent on. It could be no different than a person that just can’t stop eating. What we see on the outside doesn’t could be a sign of there is some sort of inner imbalance.

Nesut · 10/9/21

Invincible1914 said:
Or during sex his body releases hormones in high amounts that he has become chemically dependent on. It could be no different than a person that just can’t stop eating. What we see on the outside doesn’t could be a sign of there is some sort of inner imbalance.

Sometimes it’s that simple.

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