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Forgive me for the long message in advance plz but everything I’m saying comes from experience. When it comes to dating you always should look for and analyze all red flags🚩. When doing so the rule should be no more than 3. Some say even less. If there are 3 or more keep lookin. And i count at least 3 based off what you gave.1🚩— His choice in women particularly the white woman. What drew him to her and what broke them apart. Also the biological mother too because most intelligent people know what they are getting into before they create whole new life with someone. Most ppl choose to ignore truth and see why they want. What did he ignore????? Most Importantly once you find out are YOU willing to ignore??????2🚩— The young lady im sure is very sweet and beautiful. However keep in mind she is at the age where she may still be molded but there will be certain character traits that will seem solidified and some of those traits Daddy might have help built. What will you do when you disagree wit them???? And its you against them???? Which brings me to my last flag.3🚩— This one is all you. If you think for a second you might treat this young lady different than your own future children then that should be the first and only clue you need to say NO to this one. No matter if she is angel or the devil reincarnated that young lady did not ask to be here and Definitely didn’t ask for the only woman who was suppose to be there for her to walk out. Loving a child tht did not come from you is hard work especially if you and that child don’t mesh well. How will you add mental and emotional scars to her if you get down the line and realize it doesn’t work out you.Just somethings to consider. Peace and Love fam and B1 to you sister.
Forgive me for the long message in advance plz but everything I’m saying comes from experience. When it comes to dating you always should look for and analyze all red flags🚩. When doing so the rule should be no more than 3. Some say even less. If there are 3 or more keep lookin. And i count at least 3 based off what you gave.
1🚩— His choice in women particularly the white woman. What drew him to her and what broke them apart. Also the biological mother too because most intelligent people know what they are getting into before they create whole new life with someone. Most ppl choose to ignore truth and see why they want. What did he ignore????? Most Importantly once you find out are YOU willing to ignore??????
2🚩— The young lady im sure is very sweet and beautiful. However keep in mind she is at the age where she may still be molded but there will be certain character traits that will seem solidified and some of those traits Daddy might have help built. What will you do when you disagree wit them???? And its you against them???? Which brings me to my last flag.
3🚩— This one is all you. If you think for a second you might treat this young lady different than your own future children then that should be the first and only clue you need to say NO to this one. No matter if she is angel or the devil reincarnated that young lady did not ask to be here and Definitely didn’t ask for the only woman who was suppose to be there for her to walk out. Loving a child tht did not come from you is hard work especially if you and that child don’t mesh well. How will you add mental and emotional scars to her if you get down the line and realize it doesn’t work out you.
Just somethings to consider. Peace and Love fam and B1 to you sister.
