Full Site
  • Entertainment
  • The Cookout
  • Communities
  • The Cookout

The Cookout

Random musings, lighthearted communication, and good vibes.
  • About
  • Feed
  • Discussions
  • Members
  • Events

The 11th Man

TheHarmattan

*nix Master
Tither
Messages
2,248
Reputation
1,269
Location
Wakanda
zBucks
0
Sex
Male
Race
Black
Origin
USA
11/7/21
#1
  • 11/7/21
  • Add bookmark
  • #1
Is this true for you?


 
•••

More

Report Add bookmark Share
Report

sourgrapes

Royal Sixer
Down From Day 1
Messages
1,979
Reputation
2,389
zBucks
6,572
Sex
Female
Race
Black
Origin
USA
11/9/21
#2
  • 11/9/21
  • Add bookmark
  • #2
When I was younger, it probably was true. I think that is that whole "alpha" thing where young-minded girls want to be with the one who they feel is unattainable. I don't know when it switched for me but if there is a physical attraction there, being nice and kind is a turn-on for me. I don't want to be dismissed and feel like I come in second place. I don't know why other women enjoy this either.
 
Reactions: TheHarmattan
•••

More

Report Add bookmark Share
Report

TheHarmattan

*nix Master
Tither
Messages
2,248
Reputation
1,269
Location
Wakanda
zBucks
0
Sex
Male
Race
Black
Origin
USA
11/9/21
#3
  • 11/9/21
  • Add bookmark
  • #3
sourgrapes said:
When I was younger, it probably was true. I think that is that whole "alpha" thing where young-minded girls want to be with the one who they feel is unattainable. I don't know when it switched for me but if there is a physical attraction there, being nice and kind is a turn-on for me. I don't want to be dismissed and feel like I come in second place. I don't know why other women enjoy this either.
Click to expand...
I hear you. Being nice is always needed especially in a world with so many people that do not value companionship
 
Reactions: sourgrapes
•••

More

Report Add bookmark Share
Report

sourgrapes

Royal Sixer
Down From Day 1
Messages
1,979
Reputation
2,389
zBucks
6,572
Sex
Female
Race
Black
Origin
USA
11/10/21
#4
  • 11/10/21
  • Add bookmark
  • #4
TheHarmattan said:
I hear you. Being nice is always needed especially in a world with so many people that do not value companionship
Click to expand...
It seems like social media has made things worse by making relationships and people disposable which is unfortunate. It almost encourages women to stay in a 16-year-old mindset and it encourages men to never grow up as well.
 
Reactions: TheHarmattan
•••

More

Report Add bookmark Share
Report

TheHarmattan

*nix Master
Tither
Messages
2,248
Reputation
1,269
Location
Wakanda
zBucks
0
Sex
Male
Race
Black
Origin
USA
11/10/21
#5
  • 11/10/21
  • Add bookmark
  • #5
sourgrapes said:
It seems like social media has made things worse by making relationships and people disposable which is unfortunate. It almost encourages women to stay in a 16-year-old mindset and it encourages men to never grow up as well.
Click to expand...
The next generation is screwed...
 
Reactions: sourgrapes
•••

More

Report Add bookmark Share
Report

sourgrapes

Royal Sixer
Down From Day 1
Messages
1,979
Reputation
2,389
zBucks
6,572
Sex
Female
Race
Black
Origin
USA
11/11/21
#6
  • 11/11/21
  • Add bookmark
  • #6
TheHarmattan said:
The next generation is screwed...
Click to expand...
Gen Z (I think they are called?) are for sure screwed. I think the kids coming up now will have to be raised as a means to balance out the damage but I see a lot of kids being raised in very unhealthy cultural climates that I have to wonder how much worse it will be for them.
 
•••

More

Report Add bookmark Share
Report

Need help?

New User Restrictions
Share:
Facebook Twitter Reddit Pinterest Tumblr WhatsApp Email
  • Entertainment
  • The Cookout
  • Communities
  • The Cookout
Menu
Log in

Register

  • discover
    • create a community
  • read
  • blklist
  • shop
  • more
    • broadcast
    • donate
    • about
    • help
X

Privacy & Transparency

We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:

  • Personalized ads and content
  • Content measurement and audience insights

Do you accept cookies and these technologies?

X

Privacy & Transparency

We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:

  • Personalized ads and content
  • Content measurement and audience insights

Do you accept cookies and these technologies?