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I'm open to being corrected as I have never listened to his podcast and only know about him via other youtubers.
First, I feel badly for his wife. She's been publicly embarrassed and humiliated. That said, from what it seems I understand why he's stepping out.
He married her before he was anything it seemed. Anything in terms of his not being an accomplished brother. He married the best thing at the time, my guess, thinking he didn't think he could do any better. He built a business basedo on a good marriage and with that got a lot of women hollaring. No different than the women in the church going after the good looking but very married Deacon or Pastor.
After I heard his wife go through a whole lot of biblical rant thingies, I understand why he's stepping out. I could not see myself married to her. Same with most men. Not her fault. She's being her. Derrick made vows and he's wrong for not honoring them. But from what I saw of her in this present state? I am breaking them vows if I was married to her. A case can be said he put in her in that state. That could be very true, BUT the fact remains her rant made her look like a woman most men won't want, especially a man who is.....pause....good looking like her husband.
She's not a bad woman. She'd make a fantastic wife and mother. She is a fantastic mother and wife I presume. She would be that for a guy who is born again, steeped in the bible, etc. Derrick ain't. At least not anymore.
And my guess? She is badgering the f*ck out of him. Where you at? Check in. Who's that? Completely understandable if you've been cheated on BUT the double edged sword of that is it ends up pushing the average guy away from you. Its messy. The tragedy for her is that if they break up, whomever breaks up with whom, more than likely most men ain't gonna step to her. She got kids, she's on some other ish with the biblical ish.
I don't think she did anything wrong in their marriage probably. She seems a solid sista and its very sad to see a black marriage with kids go through this type of drama but we are here. And its a complete mess. She got a choice, put up with it and be embarrassed to some extent or be lonely with kids. He's too far gone. He's not gonna be loyal. He got a taste of the streets and he's gonna stay there till he's not able to pull anymore.
First, I feel badly for his wife. She's been publicly embarrassed and humiliated. That said, from what it seems I understand why he's stepping out.
He married her before he was anything it seemed. Anything in terms of his not being an accomplished brother. He married the best thing at the time, my guess, thinking he didn't think he could do any better. He built a business basedo on a good marriage and with that got a lot of women hollaring. No different than the women in the church going after the good looking but very married Deacon or Pastor.
After I heard his wife go through a whole lot of biblical rant thingies, I understand why he's stepping out. I could not see myself married to her. Same with most men. Not her fault. She's being her. Derrick made vows and he's wrong for not honoring them. But from what I saw of her in this present state? I am breaking them vows if I was married to her. A case can be said he put in her in that state. That could be very true, BUT the fact remains her rant made her look like a woman most men won't want, especially a man who is.....pause....good looking like her husband.
She's not a bad woman. She'd make a fantastic wife and mother. She is a fantastic mother and wife I presume. She would be that for a guy who is born again, steeped in the bible, etc. Derrick ain't. At least not anymore.
And my guess? She is badgering the f*ck out of him. Where you at? Check in. Who's that? Completely understandable if you've been cheated on BUT the double edged sword of that is it ends up pushing the average guy away from you. Its messy. The tragedy for her is that if they break up, whomever breaks up with whom, more than likely most men ain't gonna step to her. She got kids, she's on some other ish with the biblical ish.
I don't think she did anything wrong in their marriage probably. She seems a solid sista and its very sad to see a black marriage with kids go through this type of drama but we are here. And its a complete mess. She got a choice, put up with it and be embarrassed to some extent or be lonely with kids. He's too far gone. He's not gonna be loyal. He got a taste of the streets and he's gonna stay there till he's not able to pull anymore.