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This is why building our own table is important because as long as the goal is to have a seat at the table we're always going to be fighting for that last seat. As many of us know no one wants that last person to disrupt the status quo of that table in any shape or fashion; even being quiet will bring some sort of concern, so they'll be suspicious of your motives. If you don't fall all the way in line they're going to find a replacement that will.