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Dude on the phone is a real one!
Dude on the phone is a real one!
This is exactly where I stand on this one. If your relationship gets to a point where you're getting into lying and sneaking out with other folks - probably ladies that's not going to be good with your partner when he or she finds out, it's better to come clean out in the relationship and move on with whom you're more free and comfortable with.I can't tell you how many times I have seen something like this backfire though.
Like if you are with someone who you have to lie to about being out or doing your thing, maybe the relationship isn't a good option for you.
It is just ridiculous at times cause they are lying while not even doing anything wrong. No cheating or anything. The other person is just so controlling or they just don't trust them. That is not a healthy relationship.This is exactly where I stand on this one. If your relationship gets to a point where you're getting into lying and sneaking out with other folks - probably ladies that's not going to be good with your partner when he or she finds out, it's better to come clean out in the relationship and move on with whom you're more free and comfortable with.
Yup because it starts a downhill spiral. Once you allow them to control what you do and where you are then they will go beyond that and try to control more. If you’re a good person and faithful you should be able to be true and honest in your relationship. If you can’t, it’s a sign that something is wrong. Your woman shouldn’t even think to call the homie to test what he would say. It shows that the trust is lacking.I can't tell you how many times I have seen something like this backfire though.
Like if you are with someone who you have to lie to about being out or doing your thing, maybe the relationship isn't a good option for you.
Someone I know was in a relationship like this. He would have to lie about hanging out with friends. I told him if he isn't doing anything wrong and she has problems, he needs to end it. Last I heard he was engaged to her. Some people never learn.Yup because it starts a downhill spiral. Once you allow them to control what you do and where you are then they will go beyond that and try to control more. If you’re a good person and faithful you should be able to be true and honest in your relationship. If you can’t, it’s a sign that something is wrong. Your woman shouldn’t even think to call the homie to test what he would say. It shows that the trust is lacking.
Exactly!! Without having trust in your relationship, I somewhat don't see the essence of being in such relationships because anything that you do would be under a microscope which isn't going to afford you a moment of peace in that relationship.It is just ridiculous at times cause they are lying while not even doing anything wrong. No cheating or anything. The other person is just so controlling or they just don't trust them. That is not a healthy relationship.
I just can't imagine living like that. Having to worry about where I am going, what I am doing, and my partner watching my every move. Those people have so much baggage and can't be in healthy relationships.Exactly!! Without having trust in your relationship, I somewhat don't see the essence of being in such relationships because anything that you do would be under a microscope which isn't going to afford you a moment of peace in that relationship.
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