Those are compliments only a coon could love.I absolutely hate when white guys say "you're pretty for a black girl". It's such a backhanded insult and they truly think they're saying it as a compliment. I think it's statements like this that can cause young black girls to feel like they aren't beautiful because of their skin tone. I know black men must hear a version of the same thing too. Have you ever dealt with this? How did you respond?
I don't see how anyone would yearn for their approval after saying that though haha! But I get your point. It just makes that person look like an idiot, because any black woman would see that and think the same we're all thinking.Oh you speak to white men that frivolously? lol kidding. naah but uh, they know what they're doing with that. it's meant to make you yearn for their approval.
You should retort with your pretty well spoken for a neanderthal. :)
You're thinking of how a person with self-esteem and respect would respond. If you're insecure about your race and venerate Whiteness, that "compliment" would make your day. Then you'll start developing your "I'm better than the other negroes" complex.It's a dumb thing to say, because it implies that black women are ugly otherwise. Why even include that. Simply saying "You're Pretty" is enough. What a big ol dummy!
I don't see how anyone would yearn for their approval after saying that though haha! But I get your point. It just makes that person look like an idiot, because any black woman would see that and think the same we're all thinking.
I always that that was code for you have those ”European” qualities that they like.I absolutely hate when white guys say "you're pretty for a black girl". It's such a backhanded insult and they truly think they're saying it as a compliment. I think it's statements like this that can cause young black girls to feel like they aren't beautiful because of their skin tone. I know black men must hear a version of the same thing too. Have you ever dealt with this? How did you respond?
It's code for "Negro women are ugly but you are the exception". So if you sleep or date him you know that he thinks your family and friends are all ugly.I always that that was code for you have those ”European” qualities that they like.
Btw, Is that you in your avatar?
Too much hahahaOh you speak to white men that frivolously? lol kidding. naah
Exactly! and yes it is.I always that that was code for you have those ”European” qualities that they like.
Btw, Is that you in your avatar?
Yup! Like he just awarded you with the compliment of the year because he deems you attractive.It's code for "Negro women are ugly but you are the exception". So if you sleep or date him you know that he thinks your family and friends are all ugly.
Well you have to start by being pretty tracymorganlolHow come nobody ever called me “pretty for a black guy” That might actually make my day.
Well you have to start by being pretty tracymorganlol
You're thinking of how a person with self-esteem and respect would respond. If you're insecure about your race and venerate Whiteness, that "compliment" would make your day. Then you'll start developing your "I'm better than the other negroes" complex.
“Todd said my nails looked nice, so I knew there was something there,” she laughs, and Todd admits he was trying to signal that he was single. That night, he sent her a message to ask her out.
My momma say I’m pretty
she gotta say that so you don't commit that over your looks broadie.
what you say when brad said that to you?I absolutely hate when white guys say "you're pretty for a black girl". It's such a backhanded insult and they truly think they're saying it as a compliment. I think it's statements like this that can cause young black girls to feel like they aren't beautiful because of their skin tone. I know black men must hear a version of the same thing too. Have you ever dealt with this? How did you respond?
she gotta say that so you don't commit that over your looks broadie.
Has someone ever said that to you?I absolutely hate when white guys say "you're pretty for a black girl". It's such a backhanded insult and they truly think they're saying it as a compliment. I think it's statements like this that can cause young black girls to feel like they aren't beautiful because of their skin tone. I know black men must hear a version of the same thing too. Have you ever dealt with this? How did you respond?
She hasn’t answered so they probably still dating.what you say when brad said that to you?
quite possiblywith kids.
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