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Everything is a result of being systemically targeted by the majority culture. Everything and the tough part for us is to get enough of the men, yes men, not women, the men to be on code and be on point. Sisters can't do it for us.A black man who is handling business is kryptonite to sisters. Meaning its her weakness. He doesn't have to be 6'2" and look like Edris Alba either. By handling business I mean all facets: making an above average income, morally/ethically a decent person, and love for his people. If we even get 10% of brothers with that mindset its a game changer. 10% is usually needed in most groups for a paradigm shift. That is 1 out of every 10 brothers sisters see that ain't going for the twerking, ain't going for the sick mouth, he's only gonna wifey a sista who is trying to build and be a partner, teammate, whatever.Other cultures have that. Go to Korea. The men will not wifey ratchet generally. Very few will. I've been there. Same with the middle east. The arab women gotta do any ratchet ish on the low low. The majority of men want virgins and traditionally wifey. In black American culture we wifeying up women with more body counts than a mafia hit man. The women are effing with guys who already have 2 or 3 baby mamas. I made a thread about the Kendra G show. The vast majority of men and women when asked how many kids can he/she have? Questions like that, it's acceptable to say something such as 'he/she can have no more 2 and no more than 2 baby mamas/daddies'.A software engineer brother isn't dating that. On the other side too many sisters, even with degrees, and good jobs hooking up with Pookies and Ray Rays.
Everything is a result of being systemically targeted by the majority culture. Everything and the tough part for us is to get enough of the men, yes men, not women, the men to be on code and be on point. Sisters can't do it for us.
A black man who is handling business is kryptonite to sisters. Meaning its her weakness. He doesn't have to be 6'2" and look like Edris Alba either. By handling business I mean all facets: making an above average income, morally/ethically a decent person, and love for his people. If we even get 10% of brothers with that mindset its a game changer. 10% is usually needed in most groups for a paradigm shift. That is 1 out of every 10 brothers sisters see that ain't going for the twerking, ain't going for the sick mouth, he's only gonna wifey a sista who is trying to build and be a partner, teammate, whatever.
Other cultures have that. Go to Korea. The men will not wifey ratchet generally. Very few will. I've been there. Same with the middle east. The arab women gotta do any ratchet ish on the low low. The majority of men want virgins and traditionally wifey. In black American culture we wifeying up women with more body counts than a mafia hit man. The women are effing with guys who already have 2 or 3 baby mamas. I made a thread about the Kendra G show. The vast majority of men and women when asked how many kids can he/she have? Questions like that, it's acceptable to say something such as 'he/she can have no more 2 and no more than 2 baby mamas/daddies'.
A software engineer brother isn't dating that. On the other side too many sisters, even with degrees, and good jobs hooking up with Pookies and Ray Rays.
