The Cookout

[GACishere]

i always been in situations in which i like the girl more than she liked me but its wierd when it happens to me. like i had a woman tells me want to be more than friends and im like no i dont see you that way sorry and she started crying i was like " Damn is this what is like when the shoe is one the other foot" But i dont spent time with the same girl for more than 3 months cause we just stop talking and that is ok like i am used to it. you can't force some one to like you and force yourself to like someone not saying feeling change but to end unrequited loves sucks

 

[Troy]

i always been in situations in which i like the girl more than she liked me but its wierd when it happens to me. like i had a woman tells me want to be more than friends and im like no i dont see you that way sorry and she started crying i was like " Damn is this what is like when the shoe is one the other foot" But i dont spent time with the same girl for more than 3 months cause we just stop talking and that is ok like i am used to it. you can't force some one to like you and force yourself to like someone not saying feeling change but to end unrequited loves sucks

We’re you smashing the girl you told “I don’t see you that way?”

 

[GACishere]

We’re you smashing the girl you told “I don’t see you that way?”

no not even close Honestly I was an asshole to her I still feel bad about it but I just didn't care so I just went with the flow and I ended up being an asshole her And she sent me straight but still
I ended up ghosting her in the end

 

[Troy]

no not even close Honestly I was an asshole to her I still feel bad about it but I just didn't care so I just went with the flow and I ended up being an asshole her And she sent me straight but still
I ended up ghosting her in the end

So you can’t be mad when shorties do you the same.

 

[Jay]

i always been in situations in which i like the girl more than she liked me but its wierd when it happens to me. like i had a woman tells me want to be more than friends and im like no i dont see you that way sorry and she started crying i was like " Damn is this what is like when the shoe is one the other foot" But i dont spent time with the same girl for more than 3 months cause we just stop talking and that is ok like i am used to it. you can't force some one to like you and force yourself to like someone not saying feeling change but to end unrequited loves sucks

That’s why as I got older I just kept it direct with women. If I was romantically interested I would let her know by flirting, touching, making suggestive jokes so that the situation became polarizing. She was either hot or cold, room temperature was not an option.

Dudes be letting their fear of loss stop them from winning. Dating is a numbers game…the less dates you have, the less opportunity you have to win. You have to win fast, lose fast. Unrequited Love is a byproduct of not being forthright with your intentions.

Unrequited Love niggas in action

Hey let’s hangout and go to the mall and get some food.


That sounds so fun! I have to get my nails done, do you mind if we stop by the salon first?

Of course, I’ll bring a Sports Illustrated.


Non-Beta Niggas

Damn girl you so fine, let me take you out on a date!


Ok, when?


Tonight, Chamone.


Ok that works but I have to go to the mall today and having lunch with one of my besties so it has to be after 7PM.


Hee hee hee


That’s why after the mall date she couldn’t come back to your place because she had a date lined up with a Nigga who ain’t mincing words.

 

[GACishere]

So you can’t be mad when shorties do you the same.

I don't, Dating is like a game of chess some people are better at it than others some people know every single move some people don't even know what the knight does.

 

[GACishere]

That’s why as I got older I just kept it direct with women. If I was romantically interested I would let her know by flirting, touching, making suggestive jokes so that the situation became polarizing. She was either hot or cold, room temperature was not an option.

Dudes be letting their fear of loss stop them from winning. Dating is a numbers game…the less dates you have, the less opportunity you have to win. You have to win fast, lose fast. Unrequited Love is a byproduct of not being forthright with your intentions.

Unrequited Love niggas in action

Hey let’s hangout and go to the mall and get some food.


That sounds so fun! I have to get my nails done, do you mind if we stop by the salon first?

Of course, I’ll bring a Sports Illustrated.


Non-Beta Niggas

Damn girl you so fine, let me take you out on a date!


Ok, when?


Tonight, Chamone.


Ok that works but I have to go to the mall today and having lunch with one of my besties so it has to be after 7PM.


Hee hee hee


That’s why after the mall date she couldn’t come back to your place because she had a date lined up with a Nigga who ain’t mincing words.

Well time is the greatest asset that one can possess. Well this is always better to be direct The problem is the fear of rejection Kills people dream of the person that they want to be with but like there's like 7 billion people find a new person that's why I never understood how people commit suicide over their husband or wife like get a new one

 

[Troy]

I don't, Dating is like a game of chess some people are better at it than others some people know every single move some people don't even know what the knight does.

When you have value the women will put their own self in checkmate for you.

 

[Sapphire]

You have to be upfront and not let women work you around. If they are not showing any interest, don't waste your time. Don't matter how good-looking she is. You will end up regretting the time you wasted trying to pursue someone who would never give you the time of day. A lot of women will let off a little flirt to keep you interested enough to have you as a backup option. Don't be fooled by that either.

 

[Boss Hog]

You have to be upfront and not let women work you around. If they are not showing any interest, don't waste your time. Don't matter how good-looking she is. You will end up regretting the time you wasted trying to pursue someone who would never give you the time of day. A lot of women will let off a little flirt to keep you interested enough to have you as a backup option. Don't be fooled by that either.

Especially if you have a skill. If you now how to change a tire or fix a computer and are simp enough to help for free she will keep you hanging on a string.

She’ll flirt with you and then drop the bomb on you.

“Hey boss hog, how are you stranger. Hey so my Safari isn’t working and I wanted to know if you wanted to hang out and you can look at my laptop”.

That’s when you need to hit her with the “since we’re such great friends I’ll check out your safari for $50”.

She’ll never call again.

 

[Harbinger]

Here’s a video of GACishere hanging out with one of the women who friend zoned him.

View: https://youtu.be/P36_mXbSV1k

 

[Devin]

i always been in situations in which i like the girl more than she liked me but its wierd when it happens to me. like i had a woman tells me want to be more than friends and im like no i dont see you that way sorry and she started crying i was like " Damn is this what is like when the shoe is one the other foot" But i dont spent time with the same girl for more than 3 months cause we just stop talking and that is ok like i am used to it. you can't force some one to like you and force yourself to like someone not saying feeling change but to end unrequited loves sucks

There is no point in forcing relationships to work. If the feelings isn't there, don't kill yourself or beat yourself up too much about it. Move on and look for who feels the same way towards you.

 

[Deleted member 231]

Especially if you have a skill. If you now how to change a tire or fix a computer and are simp enough to help for free she will keep you hanging on a string.

She’ll flirt with you and then drop the bomb on you.

“Hey boss hog, how are you stranger. Hey so my Safari isn’t working and I wanted to know if you wanted to hang out and you can look at my laptop”.

That’s when you need to hit her with the “since we’re such great friends I’ll check out your safari for $50”.

She’ll never call again.

bruh, my mom had all types of male friends who would come over to fix or install something, she'd fix them a drink and maybe they would hang out for few hours, or a few minutes, rarely would I see them again until something else needed to be fixed.

 

[Devin]

bruh, my mom had all types of male friends who would come over to fix or install something, she'd fix them a drink and maybe they would hang out for few hours, or a few minutes, rarely would I see them again until something else needed to be fixed.

I think that your mother was the nice type to fix them a drink and get into talks with them after work. Also, I believe that it depends on the personality of the person who came to your house to fix something.

 

[Deleted member 231]

I think that your mother was the nice type to fix them a drink and get into talks with them after work. Also, I believe that it depends on the personality of the person who came to your house to fix something.

my mother knew even back then how to get what she wanted. Her SMPDAR is impeccable even as a 60 yr old.

 

[Jay]

my mother knew even back then how to get what she wanted. Her SMPDAR is impeccable even as a 60 yr old.

You're a lucky guy. A lot of cats had the revolving front door and all the niggas coming through was smashing their mom. That type of ish hardens your heart.

 

[GwynShivers]

You have to be upfront and not let women work you around. If they are not showing any interest, don't waste your time. Don't matter how good-looking she is. You will end up regretting the time you wasted trying to pursue someone who would never give you the time of day. A lot of women will let off a little flirt to keep you interested enough to have you as a backup option. Don't be fooled by that either.

People fail to realize that it's NOT what's on the outside that counts. It's what you're made of, NOT what you're made up as! 💯

 

[Boss Hog]

bruh, my mom had all types of male friends who would come over to fix or install something, she'd fix them a drink and maybe they would hang out for few hours, or a few minutes, rarely would I see them again until something else needed to be fixed.

Your mom was cold blooded. Had niggas in her phone like:

• TV Antenna Allen
• Cable Box Bill
• VCR Victor
• Tune Up Tyree

 

[Deleted member 231]

Your mom was cold blooded. Had niggas in her phone like:

• TV Antenna Allen
• Cable Box Bill
• VCR Victor
• Tune Up Tyree

I'm telling you. This one cat named Matthew used to always come over when she had stereo problems. He would always do Popeye impressions and had a Full Force haircut. Moms thought he was a straight cornball. SHe would roll her eyes if any dudes came over unannounced and was respectful enough to only play away games. I didn't even realize she was getting in like that until well into my 20's

 

[Deleted member 231]

You're a lucky guy. A lot of cats had the revolving front door and all the niggas coming through was smashing their mom. That type of ish hardens your heart.

facts. My mom was a serial monogamist. Always had a dude, and a dude on deck if they started trippin'. light skinned women, man.

 

[Devin]

Your mom was cold blooded. Had niggas in her phone like:

• TV Antenna Allen
• Cable Box Bill
• VCR Victor
• Tune Up Tyree

Well, I believe that they are saved that way for easy identification. What else was she supposed to save them with? It's not like they are close friends to begin with.