This is absolute facts especially with things like putting hands on one another. Once someone crosses that line it's always crossed.I feel like it's hard to go back to normal once you've crossed certain lines.
You're one of those? All up in your woman's phone? You know we don't have to use the phone to cheat right?That phone. You cant ask someone to get rid of their phone but i think the phone is the root of all dat evil. Facebook and Ig notifications. I knew a chick took a screen shot of her phone wit no notifications and made that her screensaver so it look like it aint BLOWIN up. I didnt know about that till it happened.
What I'm doing on my phone is none of your business man or not. It's insecure to be worried about what I'm doing on my phone. If you was holding it down you wouldnt have to be concerned.I dont go through Phones. Youre not ready to see what she looks at. You look at your old man's phone break yo heart. SAME IF HE SEES YOURS.If you on your phone all day it must be important to share.Rite?
But what if I'm not living a double life? What if I'm studying or working?You showed why its a problem. Thats why I refuse to put up with it. Thats too much.Its something wrong with me because you CHERISH a device that can hide your OTHER life. Your secrets feed your apetite for control of the situation because YOU think YOURE one uping me cause I DONT KNOW.LOL
Are you on a phone now?A phone shouldt be THAT important. The invention of it isnt one hundred years old.WE DID live Without TECH. Millenials.
I barely take my phone with me. I dissassemble my phone when I ride out of town on the interstate.I put it back together when i make it to my destination. I know im being tracked but i try to avoid the radiation sometimes
This right here. When the respect is flung out the window the conversation ceases.Most couples have arguments and disagreements but how they are handled is everything. If one or both people are unwilling to listen, things are going south fast. You have to be able to communicate. If you can't in the heat of things you need to be able to just say you need time to cool off.
I dont. What kind of device dosent allow you to remove the battery. Well a manufacturer that knows what the device does.
Don’t get an iPhone then bruh.
Feds can turn your phone on even if it's off too.I dont. What kind of device dosent allow you to remove the battery. Well a manufacturer that knows what the device does.
You right.Feds can turn your phone on even if it's off too.
I’m with you on this one. Any dudes hovering around your lady are looking for an in road to smash. They‘ll sabotage your relationship in a heartbeat if it looks like it’ll get them closer to sex. If he ain’t gay or some dude she knew since she was 4 it’s a no go.Friends of the opposite sex.
Are you insecure? If you're giving your women what she needs why be concerned with other men?Friends of the opposite sex.
It goes back to the saying “if you give an inch theyll take a foot”. When you let them verbally abuse you, that’s you giving them the inch.When I was in undergrad, I hit a rough patch in a 2.5yr relationship and I came across 2 videos from Tariq before HC4. "Mack Lessons 7 levels of Disrespect" and "How to spot a bedwench". Stopping everything at verbal disrespect is key because it can prevent escalation to physical harm, but over time you can prevent disrespect and maintain a cool vibe about yourself.
Safest way to live life. There was a dude who got jammed and almost lynched in Indiana because he refused to see the signs. Walking around with them folks in the sticks and got caught up.In any relationship plutonic or intimate I refuse to continue any exchange give or take with anyone who persists in espousing WS talking points or Practices WS, Coon behavior, etc. I just “wrote off” 1 associate who is intellectually lazy. After years of encouraging him to enhance & learn computer skills he still likes to go down to the local nonprofit & have some 18 yr old white college student check his email, and perform other simple online tasks. The man is 61 yrs old & is comfortable doing this, watching Soap Operas, football etc. 🤮🤮
I definitely can tell you've been around the block ass everything you listed are the true barriers to a successful relationship.Unecessary B.S.! Arguing, no compromise, no communication, no commitment, no love, no support, controlling, verbal abuse, mental abuse, physical abuse & being an overall asshole & that's on both sides, mine & his! 💯
Yeah that's another I forgot. A chick with her nose glued to her phone screen is a no-go. But that's not gonna happen anyways because I wouldn't let her get close to begin with. I remember this chick had a huge crush on me and I thought I might be down, until we bumped into eachother at college and all she did was pay attn. to her phone. MAJOR turn off. Some chicks just want a glamoured out clout chaser. Some chicks are just SUPER shy and think they can't without a phone. Ladies, please try to put down the phone for a little. Just some quiet zen together, and you can have me.That phone. You cant ask someone to get rid of their phone but i think the phone is the root of all dat evil. Facebook and Ig notifications. I knew a chick took a screen shot of her phone wit no notifications and made that her screensaver so it look like it aint BLOWIN up. I didnt know about that till it happened.
You might get a kidney from her before she let a phone go. The phone is THE Gateway to the World Wide Universe.The many lives she lives and want to live is inside of this device.Yeah that's another I forgot. A chick with her nose glued to her phone screen is a no-go. But that's not gonna happen anyways because I wouldn't let her get close to begin with. I remember this chick had a huge crush on me and I thought I might be down, until we bumped into eachother at college and all she did was pay attn. to her phone. MAJOR turn off. Some chicks just want a glamoured out clout chaser. Some chicks are just SUPER shy and think they can't without a phone. Ladies, please try to put down the phone for a little. Just some quiet zen together, and you can have me.
She gonna be on that phone posting all your business.Yeah that's another I forgot. A chick with her nose glued to her phone screen is a no-go. But that's not gonna happen anyways because I wouldn't let her get close to begin with. I remember this chick had a huge crush on me and I thought I might be down, until we bumped into eachother at college and all she did was pay attn. to her phone. MAJOR turn off. Some chicks just want a glamoured out clout chaser. Some chicks are just SUPER shy and think they can't without a phone. Ladies, please try to put down the phone for a little. Just some quiet zen together, and you can have me.
You shouldn’t accept this behavior in anyone around you, it’s a recipe for disaster especially as Black men.Don't tolerate girls who are loud/mean or starting shit with everything/everyone like wildin out something. Also if she lies it's a deal breaker.
Women feel the same way about their men having lots of female friends. If you like it, I love it. But realize you have no bitching rights when males start flocking around.Personally I don't like my woman with too many male friends a few is okay with me, but when she start having too many guys around her she call friends it's kinda like a red flag to me, cos I feel she wouldn't ever feel satisfied with me and would always need another guy to give her some of what I might be lacking as the man.
I absolutely will not put with physical and verbal abuse, cheating, stupid, willfully ignorant men, men who like to hang out with their boys ALL THE TIME, men who drink and club excessively, men who don't take care of their kids financially or physically, a man who won't work because that means he won't eat and neither will I, men who will not lead, a weak man who stands for nothing, men with mental health issues, treated or otherwise, and men who don't know how to appreciate being served by old fashioned sisters. Men lacking moral character and integrity and liars are also off the table for me too.Besides the obvious things like cheating, what do you not tolerate in a relationship? For me, it's name-calling and shouting. We can argue without being disrespectful to each other. I feel like it's hard to go back to normal once you've crossed certain lines.
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