The Cookout

[lexodyssey]

When do you know you feel comfortable in a relationship? I'm a little bit introverted, so socializing can be tiring for me. I know I'm comfortable in the relationship when being with him doesn't strain me at all, and I could spend hours at a time with him. On the same note, I also know I'm comfortable when we can be together and do our own thing in silence.

 

[Jay]

When do you know you feel comfortable in a relationship? I'm a little bit introverted, so socializing can be tiring for me. I know I'm comfortable in the relationship when being with him doesn't strain me at all, and I could spend hours at a time with him. On the same note, I also know I'm comfortable when we can be together and do our own thing in silence.

I’m similar, my comfort zone is when it doesn’t feel like I’m in a relationship. When I don’t feel chained down and bogged down by their energy. Where I also feel like I have the space and freedoms to do whats important to me on a personal level.

 

[sourgrapes]

I guess when we can just be in the same room doing our own things and we don't feel any pressure to entertain each other. Like I like to spend time with the person I am with but we don't need to be doing something together non-stop. Just being in the same room doing our own things is often enough. I am very low-maintenance.