I think the little things a partner does for you in a relationship are so important. One thing for me is him recognizing small things that I like, even if I don't talk about them. Something like if he notices that I like my coffee a certain way or something like that lol What about you guys?
This might not be a conventional "little thing" but, for me it is and that's just acknowledging the things that I like and respecting it.
Not making me feel like I have to give up the things that make me feel like me just because he doesn't like it.
A kiss goodbye and a kiss hello. Something so simple and small but it makes me feel appreciated. I also love getting my back scratched and rubbed, especially when I am under a lot of stress. Having a guy who will know it helps and just does it without me asking, icing on the cake.
Cheering in my success. When you look at my good deeds as our good deeds it goes a long way with me. Because if I’m extending myself it’s for us and not just me. You won’t know how much I made, just how much I paid.