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Men used to provide. Some women had homemaker careers that earned much less but it was extra spending money she could enjoy outside of spending her husband's money to buy groceries and whatnot. Those days are long gone. Most women will need to work because there are not enough high paying jobs for all the men out there to be providers. So unless you plan on dating older men, you have to find someone with a game plan and just hope when you have children, you won't need to work anymore after they are born.There are men who CAN swing it and be a provider and women who do make amazing stay-at-home housewives and mothers... But the reality of it is, unless you start your hustle young as a man and you avoid college as a woman, you will just end up in the same trap as everyone else. Women who go to college are now estimated to be not only the least likely to marry but the most likely to divorce if they do marry and men are seeking younger women who are more family-oriented, especially men who got money. The dudes out there with straps of cash aren't looking for some college graduate in her 30s, he is looking for someone fresh and undamaged who can carry his offspring.
Men used to provide. Some women had homemaker careers that earned much less but it was extra spending money she could enjoy outside of spending her husband's money to buy groceries and whatnot. Those days are long gone. Most women will need to work because there are not enough high paying jobs for all the men out there to be providers. So unless you plan on dating older men, you have to find someone with a game plan and just hope when you have children, you won't need to work anymore after they are born.
There are men who CAN swing it and be a provider and women who do make amazing stay-at-home housewives and mothers... But the reality of it is, unless you start your hustle young as a man and you avoid college as a woman, you will just end up in the same trap as everyone else. Women who go to college are now estimated to be not only the least likely to marry but the most likely to divorce if they do marry and men are seeking younger women who are more family-oriented, especially men who got money. The dudes out there with straps of cash aren't looking for some college graduate in her 30s, he is looking for someone fresh and undamaged who can carry his offspring.
