The Cookout

[lexodyssey]

A few years ago, I was out for a jog, and I was almost home. I was getting ready to cross the street, and this guy pulled his car up in my way and started trying to hit on me. I don't remember what I said, but I ended up continuing my jog and taking a different way home just in case lol The weird thing is, it was in the subdivision I lived in at the time, and I never saw the guy again. So yeah, what's the worst place you've been approached?

 

[Deleted member 191]

bus stop/public transportation, an elevator, fairly empty street

 

[Rollie Forbes]

A nightclub. 👎🏾

 

[TheHarmattan]

Everywhere. I'm so sexy I get hit on constantly.😆

 

[Boss Hog]

A few years ago, I was out for a jog, and I was almost home. I was getting ready to cross the street, and this guy pulled his car up in my way and started trying to hit on me. I don't remember what I said, but I ended up continuing my jog and taking a different way home just in case lol The weird thing is, it was in the subdivision I lived in at the time, and I never saw the guy again. So yeah, what's the worst place you've been approached?

bus stop/public transportation, an elevator, fairly empty street

Come on, if a brotha fly do you think any of this would matter? Like if Shemar Moore rolled up on you and you were in an elevator would you not give him any play? I find it hard to believe.

 

[Deleted member 191]

Come on, if a brotha fly do you think any of this would matter? Like if Shemar Moore rolled up on you and you were in an elevator would you not give him any play? I find it hard to believe.

I would feel uncomfortable in an enclosed space. Especially if I wasn't interested in his overtures. I'm an EXPECT the worst and HOPE for the best kind of person. So your example, would be the hope. I hope it's someone with the manners and good nature of a Shemar Moore, but I EXPECT it to be someone less than that in which case my refusal could create a tense moment.

Though I wish it wasn't the case, the truth is all guys don't have the best of intentions and it's this understanding that keeps me on alert.

 

[Troy]

I would feel uncomfortable in an enclosed space. Especially if I wasn't interested in his overtures. I'm an EXPECT the worst and HOPE for the best kind of person. So your example, would be the hope. I hope it's someone with the manners and good nature of a Shemar Moore, but I EXPECT it to be someone less than that in which case my refusal could create a tense moment.

Though I wish it wasn't the case, the truth is all guys don't have the best of intentions and it's this understanding that keeps me on alert.

Ok so Boss Hog is right. That the right guy would make the "worst place to be hit on" not the "worst place to be hit on", right?

 

[Deleted member 191]

Ok so Boss Hog is right. That the right guy would make the "worst place to be hit on" not the "worst place to be hit on", right?

in theory, sure.

 

[Troy]

in theory, sure.

Well at least you admit it.

 

[Boss Hog]

I would feel uncomfortable in an enclosed space. Especially if I wasn't interested in his overtures. I'm an EXPECT the worst and HOPE for the best kind of person. So your example, would be the hope. I hope it's someone with the manners and good nature of a Shemar Moore, but I EXPECT it to be someone less than that in which case my refusal could create a tense moment.

Though I wish it wasn't the case, the truth is all guys don't have the best of intentions and it's this understanding that keeps me on alert.

Well I‘m glad you have integrity and admit that your comfort is contingent on your interest level.

 

[Caprice]

A few years ago, I was out for a jog, and I was almost home. I was getting ready to cross the street, and this guy pulled his car up in my way and started trying to hit on me. I don't remember what I said, but I ended up continuing my jog and taking a different way home just in case lol The weird thing is, it was in the subdivision I lived in at the time, and I never saw the guy again. So yeah, what's the worst place you've been approached?

Something similar happened to me this year. I was taking my morning walk and a guy drove past, put his car in reverse, and came back to Holla. He started with “I know this isn’t right because you’re walking alone and I’m driving up on you but I had to try…blah blah.” It made me very uncomfortable especially since I was walking in my neighborhood. I definitely didn’t walk for awhile after that.

 

[The Honorable]

Something similar happened to me this year. I was taking my morning walk and a guy drove past, put his car in reverse, and came back to Holla. He started with “I know this isn’t right because you’re walking alone and I’m driving up on you but I had to try…blah blah.” It made me very uncomfortable especially since I was walking in my neighborhood. I definitely didn’t walk for awhile after that.

Was he in a Cadillac and was he playing Diamond in the Back?

"Hey there nah sweet thang lemme hol'lat cha"

 

[Goldilocks]

An Uber as a driver
As I was being trained on the job by my trainer
At a group outing by the guy I was talking to cousin
At 3 o'clock in the morning while pumping gas

 

[sourgrapes]

Post-workout when I was still doing it regularly. I am all sweaty and nasty, like don't approach me. I need to get to the shower asap lol

 

[HeffDawg]

As I was being trained on the job by my trainer

That’s a violation and an abuse of power. Did you set him straight?

 

[Goldilocks]

That’s a violation and an abuse of power. Did you set him straight?

Now I am his manager which befuddles him. Lol He fine. He hasn't tried it since.

 

[HeffDawg]

Now I am his manager which befuddles him. Lol He fine. He hasn't tried it since.

Wow must be awkward for him.

 

[Goldilocks]

Wow must be awkward for him.

Who knows lol

 

[HeffDawg]

Who knows lol

Or he is in the “have you smashed your boss” thread that @Banks and fiendin.

 

[Goldilocks]

Or he is in the “have you smashed your boss” thread that @Banks and fiendin.

I doubt he reads

 

[HeffDawg]

I doubt he reads

You must be a manager at a warehouse.

 

[AfroAboriginalAmerican]

A homo bar or club. If you see me there, something has gone terribly wrong. I don't have nothing against the gays however, I have nothing against fat black crispy women. It's just that I'm not attracted to neither.

 

[AfroAboriginalAmerican]

A LBGTQIA member bar or club. If you see me there, something has gone terribly wrong. I don't have nothing against the gays however, I have nothing against fat black crispy women. It's just that I'm not attracted to neither.

LGBTQIA? lol! I don't mind being hit on at a lesbian club...

 

[HeffDawg]

A LBGTQIA member bar or club. If you see me there, something has gone terribly wrong. I don't have nothing against the gays however, I have nothing against fat black crispy women. It's just that I'm not attracted to neither.

Well if you at they bar they for sure gon think you are with it.