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Black men have an internal desire to help Black women but the discord between us is so extreme that black men have been attacked and even killed for trying to do what's right. So we have to weigh the risk versus the reward for getting involved. The reality is the reward isn't worth the risk. That's my personal fear because I have been there. "I helped you and then you turn on me for the man that's harming you. Make it make sense". My protection only goes as far as the women that are closest to me (Family and Friends). Protection is also circumstantial. I've seen black women instigate hostile situations and then run and play the victim. Some of our women flock to zaddy because they don't want anything to do with black men. If you don't want anything to do with us, then you don't want anything to do with our protection.