The Cookout

[Rollie Forbes]

Don't shoot the messenger, I'm only leaving this here for community feedback.
Was the woman who refused the date right for refusing a casual first date, or did she unnecessarily curve her soul mate because he didn't take her for gold-encrusted wagyu steaks at Salt Bae?
Are her standards realistic? Does a man need to pick up a woman in a lear jet for the first date?
Or are the City Girls setting these "boss women" up for failure?

 

[Jay]

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Don't shoot the messenger, I'm only leaving this here for community feedback.
Was the woman who refused the date right for refusing a casual first date, or did she unnecessarily curve her soul mate because he didn't take her for gold-encrusted wagyu steaks at Salt Bae?
Are her standards realistic? Does a man need to pick up a woman in a lear jet for the first date?
Or are the City Girls setting these "boss women" up for failure?

She's an idiot and will end up lonely and single if she doesn't change her ways. What women like her don't get is that a lot of men especially Black men that are well off are smart AF. So with this attitude the best she will ever be able to be is a rich dude's jump off...she'll get flew out at his convenience, do what he wants, drink what he wants to drink, eat what he wants to eat, and when he's done he'll discard her.

She'll confuse this experience with her being the type of woman a rich man wants and spend her whole "birthing eligible" life chasing another rich guy. She'll end up getting close to her 40's and either settle for a bum ass nigga and get pregnant or become a bitter male hating woman on Lipstick Alley.

 

[Rollie Forbes]

She's an idiot and will end up lonely and single if she doesn't change her ways. What women like her don't get is that a lot of men especially Black men that are well off are smart AF. So with this attitude the best she will ever be able to be is a rich dude's jump off...she'll get flew out at his convenience, do what he wants, drink what he wants to drink, eat what he wants to eat, and when he's done he'll discard her.

She'll confuse this experience with her being the type of woman a rich man wants and spend her whole "birthing eligible" life chasing another rich guy. She'll end up getting close to her 40's and either settle for a bum ass nigga and get pregnant or become a bitter male hating woman on Lipstick Alley.

She's definitely going to end up single, alone, and bitter. She needs to take all of that money and buy herself a few cats.

 

[Blackgravity]

I'm so glad I was born when I was, females like this, when I was in my teens and early 20's were rare to come across. You can pretty much get a feel for how generation's were based on the music. Listen to R&B from the 80's and early 90s, and that's pretty much how we treated and seen each other, the worse the music got, the worse the attitudes got.
If you're Generation X, then you know what I'm talking about.

 

[GwynShivers]

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Don't shoot the messenger, I'm only leaving this here for community feedback.
Was the woman who refused the date right for refusing a casual first date, or did she unnecessarily curve her soul mate because he didn't take her for gold-encrusted wagyu steaks at Salt Bae?
Are her standards realistic? Does a man need to pick up a woman in a lear jet for the first date?
Or are the City Girls setting these "boss women" up for failure?

They're setting themselves up for failure. Most producer women don't divide their careers & their lovelives.
Most are ALL career, then lovelife. By then, it's too late. No man, no children, no lovelife. Oh well, back to work. 🤷🏽‍♀️
I was always asked how I did it. Half & half, but at NO time did I put my job over my husband & my family.

 

[Rollie Forbes]

I'm so glad I was born when I was, females like this, when I was in my teens and early 20's were rare to come across. You can pretty much get a feel for how generation's were based on the music. Listen to R&B from the 80's and early 90s, and that's pretty much how we treated and seen each other, the worse the music got, the worse the attitudes got.
If you're Generation X, then you know what I'm talking about.

Exactly!

 

[Rollie Forbes]

They're setting themselves up for failure. Most producer women don't divide their careers & their lovelives.
Most are ALL career, then lovelife. By then, it's too late. No man, no children, no lovelife. Oh well, back to work. 🤷🏽‍♀️
I was always asked how I did it. Half & half, but at NO time did I put my job over my husband & my family.

They don't make them like you anymore. Gen Z and beyond are doomed.

 

[Jay]

They're setting themselves up for failure. Most producer women don't divide their careers & their lovelives.
Most are ALL career, then lovelife. By then, it's too late. No man, no children, no lovelife. Oh well, back to work. 🤷🏽‍♀️
I was always asked how I did it. Half & half, but at NO time did I put my job over my husband & my family.

Career women try to catch bees with honey and get mad when they find out bees can make their own honey, they need nevtar.

 

[Sapphire]

Women who act like this will only hurt themselves. Men don't want women like this. You can be successful but you best be humble about it or you will never find a man willing to put up with you.

 

[Devin]

Career women try to catch bees with honey and get mad when they find out bees can make their own honey, they need nevtar.

Seriously, this is something that's getting out of hand lately with the way some ladies think and see life as all for money and material things. Yes, money is important but being too desperate for it is so wrong.

 

[Maximum]

Yeah but why asked her out to Applebees of all places lol

 

[Devin]

Women who act like this will only hurt themselves. Men don't want women like this. You can be successful but you best be humble about it or you will never find a man willing to put up with you.

That's what some of them ladies fail to understand. Yes, there are some men out there who can't deal with a career woman but there are so many out there that respect and support them but you have to be humble and loyal to the man that really loves you.

 

[TeeGee]

This a generation of clout chasers , they post all this just to get more followers or likes and if you check her out well you would even find that she is very broke and living off numerous bank debts.

 

[SINCEREM]

xD, that's why I've decided to stay away from women in my life, I stay connected to different people online, who helps me positively and negatively too. But only the right people I'll spend my time with, as for those ladies who loves material things more than true love, I'm already faraway.