Make your bed rough or smooth, you still have to sleep in it. But then...It's all good. Understanding by faith is subjective so it's perfectly understandable how there can be disagreement. If the Grand Architect created things that way then I will accept my fate as a man when it is time to.
If a person considers themselves reasonable but denies the tenants of the appellation, what room, do you have, for discussing or exchanging anything?