The question is pretty clear in the title and you have to pick one or the other; both is not acceptable.
Excitement - Never knowing what to expect, always something new, something novel, it can sometimes be good or bad. The goods can be super good e.g. all expense paid trip to the bahamas and as bad as you having to bail him out of jail because he was head of a drug ring, you never know.
Pros: Fun, exciting, no limits, never can be complacent.
Cons: Not consistent, you never gain stability, you never know where you stand with him, things change at the drop of a hat.
Consistency - You always know what to expect. He works, pays the bills, waters the lawn, takes care of the kids, makes love to you the same way every night, vacation once a year, doesn’t yell at you…Valentine’s, Halloween, Christmas Celebrations…everything Is the same every day.
Pros: You always know where you stand, you know the lights will be on, bills will be paid, kids will be fed.
Cons: Could lead to a boring life of monotony. You have security but could miss out on some once in a lifetime experiences due to lack of spontaneity.
@RedMoon @Harlemhottie @eclipsed @Caprice
Excitement - Never knowing what to expect, always something new, something novel, it can sometimes be good or bad. The goods can be super good e.g. all expense paid trip to the bahamas and as bad as you having to bail him out of jail because he was head of a drug ring, you never know.
Pros: Fun, exciting, no limits, never can be complacent.
Cons: Not consistent, you never gain stability, you never know where you stand with him, things change at the drop of a hat.
Consistency - You always know what to expect. He works, pays the bills, waters the lawn, takes care of the kids, makes love to you the same way every night, vacation once a year, doesn’t yell at you…Valentine’s, Halloween, Christmas Celebrations…everything Is the same every day.
Pros: You always know where you stand, you know the lights will be on, bills will be paid, kids will be fed.
Cons: Could lead to a boring life of monotony. You have security but could miss out on some once in a lifetime experiences due to lack of spontaneity.
@RedMoon @Harlemhottie @eclipsed @Caprice
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