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  1. Banks

    Did you ever know someone who kept you around as a backup?

    I've dated a few women who I think weren't really that invested in our relationship. One girl I dated, I swear she dated me to just get back at an ex, and once he came back to her, she broke it off with me. I also dated this another girl who I was really into. We dated for a few months, and then...
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    Stupid Laws

    I'm going to guess at Yellowstone park it's taken very seriously. Probably something to do with "don't feed the bears". They are probably fed up with people getting too close to them. I kinda view it like when people jump into the enclosure of a zoo or something to get near an animal. I think...
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    Did you ever end up dating a best friend?

    I used to hang out with this girl in middle school and highschool back when I was a little guy. We were great friends, and often talked to each other about the people we were into. I eventually started to get feelings for her though, and it became tough to hang out with her because of it...
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    Do you want a relationship or just a friends with benefits type of situation?

    Yeah I find that to be the situation a lot of the times, especially if it's an ongoing thing, because of course one of both will eventually find feelings. I have had a couple women that I was really into, but they weren't into a relationship at the time. So I kept on with it, and met other...
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    How much of your dating life do you share with friends?

    Oh man, I probably shared way too much to my friends about my relationships. Back in highschool I didn't care much. I shared all the details. But these days, nah, I can't do that to my lady. Looking back, I feel like a douche for the details I did share, but what can ya do. Most of my friends...
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    Anyone here ever join the military?

    I've never joined the military, but I was always interested in joining the Marines, but later decided not to even bother with any military service. I had a bad temper back in those days as well, so me in the military would not have been a good combo. What in the hell did I just walk into here?
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    Your views on euthanasia

    What are your thoughts on euthanasia? It's the process of putting a person to rest who is suffering from something that can't be cured or someone who may be in a coma or in a vegetative state. Do you think euthanasia should be allowed? Honestly, I think we should be allowed to end our lives...
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    Do you want a relationship or just a friends with benefits type of situation?

    I am a mix of both. I want to meet someone one day to live the rest of my life with, but I am also open to just a friends with benefits type of situation. I know some find FWB a bit weird, while others are totally for and into it. I myself want to be more open to it, because I know many women...
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    Do you have any horror stories involving the police?

    It's messed up. Things got to change. It's like they can't understand that we can be successful. I hate that so many people get pulled over for being black and driving a good vehicle. "Oh ya musta stole it derrr" The cop is thinking. That's another thing. We get accused of so much false bs...
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    Loaning money to friends

    It is. I rarely talk to the guy anymore, and I feel like I lost a good friend because of it. I mean, we still converse, on facebook, but it's like "how ya doin?", "Did you hear about what so and so did" etc. But as of late, it's been silent on both sides.
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    Do you have any horror stories involving the police?

    The police are supposed to serve and protect, but it seems like it's the opposite when it comes to the black community. With the constant news about cops murdering black men and women, like it's nothing. It's happening so much, that I do worry everytime I see a cop drive by. I've been stopped...
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    Loaning money to friends

    Oh damn dude, who here has loaned money to a friend in need? I have only done it once and I regretted it. He of course is one of my childhood friends, but we've kinda lost touch in recent years. But, he can contact me whenever he needs a handout. And honestly I helped him with the understanding...
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    Weddings, ugh, like them or hate them?

    So you scared a bunch of old people? lol not my thing, but hey, more power to ya! mjlol
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    Why do some people like feet so much?

    It's a fetish I cannot understand. I find feet to be gross, probably because I grew up being outside, often barefoot, so my feet were pretty gross growing up. And honestly, I never saw feet in a sexual manner ever. I'll give my woman a foot massage no prob, but I draw the line when they want me...
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    Fellas, How Are You Handling This?

    Dude was only gone for an hour and a half and this is how she reacts? Damn dude, run as fast as you can.
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    Crashing parties and other events

    Oh for sure. We would often get looks, but when they hung out with us, we all became buds soon after. There was only one time where we peaced out early, because some dude was trying to literally set the place on fire. It wasn't because we were there, just some dude decided to set a house on fire...
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    Weddings, ugh, like them or hate them?

    I don't want to stand in a wedding myself. I thankfully didn't stand in my nieces wedding, because everyone who stood were supposed to do a speech, and I freak out with public speaking, so that's a no go for me. But if I'm in the back observing the wedding, that's something I can do.
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    Crashing parties and other events

    Friends have done this to me many times. I would go to a local party and think we were all invited, and my friends would say things about how they didn't even know the people hosting the party haha. I believe it. I lived in an area with a lot of white people, so when my friends and I crashed...
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    Crashing parties and other events

    Do you guys ever crash parties and other events? As in go to them uninvited. I have crashed many parties in my day, even a wedding. I never crashed any major events or anything, just mostly local house parties, some college parties and so on. Did you guys and ladies ever do any party crashing?
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    Weddings, ugh, like them or hate them?

    I just attended a wedding yesterday for my niece and it was a fun one. My mother-in-law was fed up about pictures taking too long, and the grooms parents were arguing with my side of the family. It was a ride haha! What are your feelings on attending weddings? I love going to weddings for the...