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    What would you spend on a wedding ring?

    Really, a woman should be taking care of her body though, so should the man. They owe that to each other, especially in terms of health. Everything else should be discussed though, expensive ring or not. Like for me, I want to be a homemaker and a stay-at-home mom/wife so I am fine with cooking...
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    Teacher Comes Out As Lesbian to Students

    I heard about this nonsense. No one should be doing this. They are grown adults talking about their bedroom preferences which are NOT acceptable. If she had her girlfriend or wife come in and one student asked about it, then by all means say you are a lesbian but to directly push this on kids...
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    Indians Are Mad At Steve Harvey

    Who cares, cats are cute. Do they hate cats in India or something? What is the big freaking deal? I swear people are so fragile you can sneeze in the wrong direction and shatter tens of thousands of people.
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    What would you spend on a wedding ring?

    Spot on. Like the ring is nice and all but putting that money toward your future means more. I know plenty of women who would straight up tell a dude no if he proposed with anything less than a 10k ring. They will end up never married, I can tell you that much.
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    Has anyone ghosted you? Or have you ghosted someone?

    Yup. I am actually glad he backed out of meeting. Had I caught some feelings for him and found out he was married after the fact, I would have lost it. Dudes that do this are spineless.
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    What would you spend on a wedding ring?

    I am asking the guys in particular but ladies feel free to chime in on how much you think should be spent. I know the standard for a lot of people is 3 months' wages which seems ridiculous. Say you earning $3,500 a month, you really going to spend over 10k on a ring? That all seemed much to me...
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    Has anyone ghosted you? Or have you ghosted someone?

    I was ghosted once. I was talking with a guy back in 2019. We met through another forum. We really connected, or at least I felt like we did. We lived pretty close to each other, he was just a state over. We planned on meeting up but when the day came, he just stopped responding. Weeks went by...
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    Would you rather do a small or big wedding?

    Smaller is better. Why would I want to go into debt just to impress people? I never wanted a big wedding and never will. I want a few close friends and family, that is it. Nothing fancy or expensive. I want the day to be about me and my man and a healthy future together.
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    The Game Awards 2021 Game Reveals - What are you interested in?

    I usually just watch the game trailers after the fact. These award shows are a joke. They just go with whatever they think should have won and that is about it.
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    What Black Activist Groups Should Be Avoided?

    There are so many groups these days it seems. It is like gender identities with those tumblr people or something. lol I know some of them mean well, some do good, but a lot of them are just using skin color to get what they want when they want, they don't care about actually helping anything or...
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    Do you like getting tatted up?

    I have two small ones. Nothing to brag or showcase. I was young and wanted the experience. My skin is light enough to show them well but I never wanted to be covered in them. I have a friend who is, she is a white gal. Has them on her legs, back, both arms, etc. She must have spent over 5k on...
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    How the NFL Pushed Fans Like Me Away From the Game

    What pushed me away, as a woman, was the amount of abuse that the NFL swept under the rug. There were dudes straight beating the crap out of their girlfriends, wives, etc. and they would cover it up because they didn't want to risk losing a star player. I have heard of big names raping women...
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    I don't necessarily agree with their views politically but this was a

    I figured that much but what is she doing that is making her someone to talk about? That is what I don't get. She doesn't seem special to me. Just seems like another token mouthpiece for the right person or group to use to justify whatever narratives they want. Why do we even give people like...
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    When A Man Gives Up

    Some dudes are incels out of looks and wealth disadvantages, not because they want to be that way. They just get rejected. I feel like women have it easier in many regards to men in the dating world. Even the ugliest woman can find a dude to care for her but if you have no good looks or good...
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    Have you dated someone way out of your league?

    I mean looks aren't everything but they are something. I guess we sometimes date below a certain standard in other people's eyes. Like a friend of mine. Her fiance is... Well, he is not a good-looking guy but he treats her right and makes her happy so I am happy for her.
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    Relaxing video games

    Sims, Minecraft, Stardew Valley, Animal Crossing... Really anything that involves building, maintaining, or creating. I like games that allow me to play how I want and have the freedom to enjoy them in my own way. One aspect that I always enjoyed in certain games was building things. Had I not...
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    I don't necessarily agree with their views politically but this was a

    I don't really know anything about her but I always hear people talking her up or down. What is she doing that gets people on all sides talking? I don't get it.
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    So a friend wants to set me up...

    For sure. This is why we agreed to take things slow. I am not about to rush into something. I want to make sure we are right for each other and really get to know each other before anything advances.
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    Banned For Life

    I guess that is one way of outlawing it but still. There are far worse things in this world. Pretty sure alcohol alone causes more health issues in people than smoking. At least from what I have witnessed at the clinic. Both are bad for your body but people need to have the freedom to decide for...
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    Have you dated someone way out of your league?

    Looks have to factor into some degree but a lot of people put the attractiveness of a possible partner in other people's hands. Like will my family think he/she is good enough? Will my friends think he/she is hot enough? and so on. The one dude I dated, after my mother met him she goes "give...