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    Know anyone who married just for the benefits that come with it?

    You would think they would know what they are signing up for but most of them don't. Hard to feel pity for a man who falls for this mess.
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    Chiptune/8bit music

    I'm into all this kind of music. I think this is from growing up playing video games. It almost relaxes me in a way. A bit nostalgic, it almost takes me back to my youth where worrying about the stresses of life didn't exist.
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    How would you handle your partner gaining weight?

    I see it all the time. Couples get comfy with each other and they put on weight. Sometimes it is both, sometimes it is only one. In cases where it is only one, how would you handle it if your partner put on weight? Would you care/would it bother you? If so - How would you approach letting them know?
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    Know anyone who married just for the benefits that come with it?

    My mother's friend who is white married a man who basically married her out of pity. He had a decent job with good insurance. He felt bad for her and wanted to marry her so she could get insurance among other things. The sad part is, she had no idea. He ended up getting some medical procedure...
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    Dating a woman who also is into women

    I have a bisexual friend and I can tell you, any time she has been in a relationship with a man, it always went south. Why? Cause he gets greedy. He wants two women. Guess what? When he starts stressing her out, she singles him out and started going to the woman more and more, and eventually...
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    Haircare tips?

    What are some haircare things you learned over the years worth sharing? I am always looking for new ways to keep my natural hair strong and healthy. This can be for both women and men. We all have to take care of our hair and keep things healthy.
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    If Omicron variant comes to the US, think another lockdown will happen?

    You saw the Medical Chief and what she said right? Cases are very mild and people are doing just fine. So why the panic? I honestly think it is because they don't want travel happening in Africa right now. Likely has to do with China. They have been making moves on Africa for years and no one...
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    When I was 13, I was extremely racist

    It is sad but you see this a lot from mixed people growing up. They tend to hate half of themselves for whatever reason. I have had mixed friends and they are always the ones who struggle with their own identity growing up and a lot of them get picked on in school, especially mixed girls (they...
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    Wholesomeness

    This is the kind of content I like to see being shared and spread. We need more of this and less of those horrible trends and dehumanized culture. Wholesomeness is where it is at. Fathers and sons, mothers and daughters sharing beautiful moments together.
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    Why Are They Called "Caucasian"?

    I feel like that has to do with their diet and dental care though. Like lighter skin people are more prone to teeth issues but when you eating loads of sugar and don't have balanced dental care, things are bound to go south. They don't get on people over there about going to the dentist.
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    Narcissists Are Everywhere

    If I ever seen people like this where I lived, I would shout "get a real job!" LOL I don't see this kind of stuff here. Seems like you only see this mess in Cali, NY, and parts of Florida. I rarely see it happen outside these spots.
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    Why are men painting their nails now?

    There is a difference between slim fit, fitted, and skinny. When dudes wear slim fit or fitted, it is fine but skinny does not look good. Hell, most women can't pull off skinny jeans and some dudes out there thinking they can lol
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    $7.4 billion spent on Friday

    Seems like it, that is for sure. I think because people became more accustomed to shopping online during 2020, it only further pushed the numbers for this year. Like Amazon alone doubled their value in 2020, I can bet a lot of online shopping was done over there for Black Friday and Cyber Monday.
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    Why Are They Called "Caucasian"?

    I know it is a bit random to pull this from the video, but did anyone else realize long ago that most white people have their teeth decaying and very few black folks have this issue? I mean they either need to be on drugs or really messing up in life for it to be a huge issue. I see some of the...
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    Narcissists Are Everywhere

    WTF LOL I would be so embarrassed doing this. How the heck do they not feel any shame? Social media has made people selfish, self absorbed, and straight stupid. Like I get wanting to take good pictures but damn, they all out there acting like they are celebrities or something. It is cringy.
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    $7.4 billion spent on Friday

    I guess people are just distracting themselves then. Like I get it, the economy is heading south and there isn't much we can do but I would think more people would have the common sense to at least use their money to invest or something. Find a way to at least try to counteract the inflation...
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    Ever do an all-nighter?

    Shoot I did all-nighters just cause I was craving some food and had to wait until the place opened in the AM lol I haven't done it in a long time though. If I tried that now, my sleep would be a hot mess.
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    What's Going On Here

    I saw this floating around online. This is the beauty of having concealed carry. Dude didn't know he was armed and good thing for everyone in that place, he clearly knew how to handle himself.
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    Do you think there is someone for everyone?

    I think there are right people for a said person. I don't think there is "the one" but rather the feeling of it. This is usually brought on when you meet someone you click with, you are friends with, and you legit feel like you are marrying your best friend. Those feelings last. You just have to...
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    What "little things" do you value in a relationship?

    A kiss goodbye and a kiss hello. Something so simple and small but it makes me feel appreciated. I also love getting my back scratched and rubbed, especially when I am under a lot of stress. Having a guy who will know it helps and just does it without me asking, icing on the cake.