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  1. Ubiquity

    Ladies, If you could only have one out of a man, what would it be: Excitement or Consistency?

    He was either broke or thought of me as broke.. I'm still not too sure!!
  2. Ubiquity

    Ladies, If you could only have one out of a man, what would it be: Excitement or Consistency?

    Don't really remember, I wasn't really interested from the gate, but was willing to see passed my own illusions. I want to say 6 or 7, maybe even 8 months. A large part of that was boo-loving on the phone before bed.. I don't even think I am capable of staying on the phone like that anymore!! It...
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    Ladies, If you could only have one out of a man, what would it be: Excitement or Consistency?

    Chile, that brotha was trying anything and I mean ANYTHING and ended up offending me. I was having car problems and never complained, it was my excuse to stay home 4real! He took it upon himself to show up with this 1990 Oldsmobile rusting, and loud!! He said "I bought a new car, you wanna check...
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    Ladies, If you could only have one out of a man, what would it be: Excitement or Consistency?

    As long as he is not a stick in the mud o ruddy Pooh a$$, I'll bring the excitement. I found out too many times that a man's idea of excitement is crazy!! Dude surprised me with mother's day looking flowers, indoor rock climbing and dinner at Fridays! 🙄🙄😒💐🧐🤨🤨. Nothing too exciting at all...
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    Do you consider yourself an extrovert?

    I am an introvert by nature, but many people feel as if I am shy. I am not, and can actually be the loudest most talkative individual. I prefer chilling in the cut and studying the world around me though. I have a anti-social nature. Especially when the conversation reflects my mind and I have...
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    Are you giving your man what he needs and wants or are you giving him what YOU think he needs and wants?

    Please believe, I am about fair game. Date whomever you wish and dare put all your eggs in one basket, I will return the same gesture. I really feel like he is someone I can take serious if he stopped the BS, but he just isn't there. Meanwhile, I have plenty of male attention, barely tolerable...
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    Are you cool with seeing white doctors?

    White, black or other, they all have a code they must follow, which I feel doesn't address my needs. If I ask for a allergen panel, I shouldn't need a excuse to bill my insurance outside if that's what the hell I requested. I respect the hustle and realize they get paid per test/procedure...
  8. Ubiquity

    What do you consider "moving too fast" in a relationship?

    I agree. Watch what they do, don't listen to what they say!
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    Would you date someone with a couple kids?

    He act like he ain't hear her and next time we in the presence of each other and she still on that craziness it will get indignant. He will catch the bidness too!! If he ever felt like he knew my mother, it's best for him to regard how she may have raised her kids.
  10. Ubiquity

    What do you consider "moving too fast" in a relationship?

    Love is a verb not an adjective and there is nothing within 6 mo's outside of kindness that I could call love. Folks have it confused. I love everybody- adjective, but I don't love everybody- verb, I can actually be considered a hater in some regards! Some times love is even a noun or pro noun...
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    Would you date someone with a couple kids?

    I am too old 4sure, but even more important to me is my own mother when she was dating with kids under 18, never made us call her mens dad. They were nice men who I could get advise and insight from when my own father wasn't around. That's it! No need for the mind games and I am glad I've never...
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    What do you consider "moving too fast" in a relationship?

    I hate hearing "I love you" within 6 months! It's an obvious lie because there is no way for you to really even know ME in 6mos.
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    Are you giving your man what he needs and wants or are you giving him what YOU think he needs and wants?

    For the last 14 months, I've been dealing with "he" and that is what he told me what he wants. I am truly trying to look passed that he described a booty call, because according to him that is the kind of woman he is looking for. Outside of me flaking or creating a great escape, I think we enjoy...
  14. Ubiquity

    Are you giving your man what he needs and wants or are you giving him what YOU think he needs and wants?

    Ummm. He wants steady intimacy, classy company and availability when he calls. I feel like he has described a 2020 concubine!! Why should I have to sign up to be a 2020 concubine in hopes that I will be upgraded to an entrapped concubine! Men just move and think differently and unfortunately my...
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    Would you date someone with a couple kids?

    Younger children ARE annoying and require lots of attention. Essentially, I don't believe in being a step-parent. I can be a genuine, caring and dependable adult who happens to have a deep relationship with your parent at this time. I love kids though, just not the way I see parents love their...
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    Are You A Capitalist?

    There are things that are ideally awesome, but realistically have draws backs. I really like socialism, even though I have never had to live under that system, so anything I have to say is conjecture until I suffer under a differing regime. Currently, capitalism draws soooooo much greed that it...
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    What's the lady's feelings on the "Slave Play"?

    Django upped my expectation and I'm not turning back. Especially for no perversion. It looks like they needed to add erogenous mutilation just to keep it a buck!!
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    Do you want a relationship or just a friends with benefits type of situation?

    I like how you put that. The friendship is soooo much more important than the intimacy because truth is people get bored with the intimacy(especially men) and the whole relationship be built on that alone. Even if both parties know that it isn't even their strong suit within their union. There...
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    Did you know California used to be an island?

    bobbybrowncool *Listening to the Lying King*