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It truly is like a drowning victim. It takes someone skilled in those kinds of emotional manoeuvers to be of any help to them. Many things form these kinds of mindsets. Upbringing of course is a broad term, but you could even look into how the relationship between one's mother and father forms...

It truly is. The child even being nourished by the mom's diet is something to think about. And the link between diet and the demonstration of self control.

Finally!!!! Though I don't believe in the voting system, this change of mindset is exciting to see. If it ain't black, take it back.

Eating habits say a lot about a person, so that definitely is an important part of the puzzle. Of course she doesn't have to be eating a Dr. Sebi diet, but everyone I've known who's eaten junk food consistently not only ends up with bad heath, but also has a junky mind. You see what you eat.

I came across an interesting channel that discusses the gender wars in interesting light. It was a sister called The Crimson Cure. She divides black folks into two categories. The Lions and Lionesses on one side and the hyenas on the other. The Lions and Lionesses want to stick together and...

I'm not sure if this is hearsay, but I've heard certain scented candles (especially those from bath and bodyworks) could be carcinogenic and aren't the best for your health. My personal go to is incenses for the scent of course and also that kind of meditative feel of lighting one up and...

I think rationality has been taken out of black relationships due to years of programing and the appearance of movements such as feminism, corporate culture, and MGTOW. Men and women in our communities are stepping outside of their roles and have made up ample excuses for it. Many of our sisters...

That's honestly a good point. I feel like in this day and age it's easy to forget the role that biology plays in choosing partners and relationships overall. Many men in their 40s aren't looking for simple "companionship" but to build something stable after growing into themselves. This is some...

I've been noticing a pattern of older men dating very young and I have to agree. I think there's a big issue with them not wanting the damaged women who are around their age. Personally my belief is that as long as there's intentions on the man's part of taking the woman seriously, and they...

Of course not! Who'd do such a thing?👀

I agree with that point of view. At the end of the day, we've gotta treat people like adults and not put ourselves in harm's way for their decisions. No matter how much you talk to some people or steer them away from these toxic relationships, they always seem to find themselves right back in them.

That's what happens when our solutions to everything is violence against ourselves. The amount of times I've seen sisters get into it with somebody and say they're gonna get their brothers/ father/ uncle/ boyfriend etc on someone and escalate the situation is too high to count. Some situations...

That's a big thing. Then how to part with things. Selling? Donate? Dump them in your neighbor's garbage?

Being proud of your tribe is one thing, but being tribalistic is dangerous because you view someone from across the hill as an enemy and have issues joining with them for a cause that would benefit you both. Of course the history of Africa and colonialism spells this out rinse and repeat time...

I've heard of this thing called The Seven Year Itch where a couple that's together for about seven years without any kids usually falls apart. If someone even has the slightest desire to have kids and their husband or wife doesn't, that's gonna end up being a major point of contention. At that...

Exactly!! You hit the nail on the head. They know it's a dysmorphia and are willing to treat it as if it's a physical ailment. The notion of agreeing with someone who thinks they were born in the wrong body is absolutely wild, and that's why they can't even describe how that works.

Moving is the definition of a headache. It's one of those things that'll have you standing in the middle of the room looking around and thinking "there has to be a better way to do this". The most painful part is fighting with furniture and having to bust out your knowledge on angles to get...

I believe in the possibility of aliens. Even looking at a religious perspective of angels and demons, they're beings not from this earth and would classify as aliens (of course not the grays that people imagine but still not of this Earth). Now if other alien life would be carbon based life...

I wish for the best. Certain things need to be addressed such as this crippling gender war and communication, but I have hope for the future of black love.

It's insane how we live in a society that openly experiments on children in these kinds of ways. I'm sure that in the next 10-20 years, people will look back in shock and tell haunting stories of the hormonal and surgical procedures done on supposedly transgender kids. It needs to be highlighted...