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    So a friend wants to set me up...

    I appreciate those kind words from both of you. I don't really think of it that deeply but when I take a step back and see the amount of black kids who get left behind or adopted by people who don't know how to raise them (white people uneducated on black struggles) it makes for a very hard...
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    Men dressing feminine / Women dressing masculine

    No, no. I am all for flats, throwing out the handbag if it is not for you, and not wearing dresses. I meant it in the sense that some are entirely swapping roles when it comes to clothing. Plenty of women will wear the boyfriend look and be cute about it but others go full force with damning...
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    Polygamous Relationships

    There was this really wack a$$ dude on YouTube a good 10 years ago I think it was. I remember my friend showing his videos to me. He was one of those types to want to have multiple partners but the women he would get with, he would straight brainwash. I agree completely about being honest but...
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    So a friend wants to set me up...

    I appreciate this, seriously. This is why I shared about it here. I like to get people not involved to look over what is happening cause my feelings may be clouded. 1 - He doesn't have a set preference according to what he has told me. He has dated white and Hispanic women but mostly dated...
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    Racial Cyberwarfare

    If I could preach Linux any more than I do, I would. I do not trust anything that doesn't share the code, open source or no apple sauce! Now just imagine what Facebook, Amazon, Google, Twitter, and all the other big names keep hidden behind their code. Do you think someone hasn't already been...
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    FBI infiltrator's story of 25 years undercover with white supremacists

    Three things worth investing in to be prepared for something going down: land, guns, and a means to produce food. You can have just land and means to produce food, but it is pointless without a way to protect it or your family. If you are not in a position to buy land, make do with what you...
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    So a friend wants to set me up...

    I thought I would give an update. We have been hanging out a lot recently. It has been a good number of weeks so we are moving to the next phase of our relationship. I will be meeting his daughter and spending the day with them together. Since the weather is not ideal and we have a storm that...
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    I'm prepping for a spring garden

    So I decided I may as well start now so I can be prepped and ready for spring. Looking into buying seed and supplies. Have a mini garden going so I can have a nice harvest throughout the summer. For anyone with experience with gardening, what supplies/tools are good to get now prior to starting...
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    Rihanna pregnant

    How is A$AP Rocky as a man? I mean I never felt him out. I just hope he is a good man for her, a good partner, and will be a good dad. I always worry about couples rushing into baby-making. I get it though, she is 33. Ideally, you want to have babies before the age of 35. A good chance she wants...
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    Nick Cannon doesn't want a black baby mama

    It is one thing to have a preference but this dude... It is beyond that for him. I know white men who have an Asian preference and some black men who have a white preference but neither of them exclusively date nothing both white or Asian women. I think that is how you know for sure when someone...
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    Do you like a partner with a sense of humor, someone who can make you laugh?

    I feel like there is a fine line with this for most people. Like you obviously want someone in your life who can make you laugh but when serious things are happening, it can be annoying to have someone who is clowning around when things need to be done. It can come off as them not caring enough...
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    Why do some people go out of their way to be liked?

    I guess cause we are social creatures who rely on bonding with others, it is a fault we face often putting ourselves in harm's way just to be liked or appreciated. It is a shame though when you think about it.
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    Father Beats the Breaks Off 22 Year Old That Hit His Daughter

    Good on him. He is a good dad. Being there and protecting his little girl. And yeah I agree, if he hadn't been getting recorded, I bet the dude would of beat him to death. No grown adult should be laying a hand on a child like that. That is disturbing and disgusting. He got what he deserved. I'd...
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    Police investigating multiple 'suspicious' vehicle explosions

    California is a mess. They allow anyone down from Mexico in, no questions asked, and help them with free food and housing while actual citizens rot on the streets. The fact that cars are blowing up doesn't surprise me. The suicide things you mentioned though, that is news to me. Do you know...
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    Arizona hiker fell 700 feet to his death...

    Those are the sandals of crazy people. I am convinced. LOL I have seen a number of white hippies wearing those and they just have that look in their eye like they'd walk up to a bear and try sharing food with it or something. Like you are just knocking on death's door at that point.
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    Who do you think we are getting at the super bowl this year?

    Well, so much for my bet LOL Yeah, the Bengals and Rams won. I guess the Bengals game was a solid one. Went into OT and all. I am not sure if I will partake in any SB bets or not. I have my doubts but I would like to see a Cini win.
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    White Teachers Have Pretty Low Opinions Of Their Black Students

    That is what I don't like. This is the kind of bull Malcolm X was talking about. They are like wolves in sheep's clothing. They pretend to be on your side but I can bet you if slavery came back, they'd be first in line to claim theirs. It disgusts me how two-faced and indifferent they can be.
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    Why do some people go out of their way to be liked?

    I have seen this online and offline, in my own family, my work life, and in my friend circle. It seems like some people care so much about being liked that they will change themselves in order to please the people around them. Not being true to themselves. I feel like this just sets you up for...
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    Who do you think we are getting at the super bowl this year?

    I don't watch anymore but I did a bet at work. You have to pick who is going and who will win, and the one closest to the right score wins the pot. I think there are like 20 people in on it. I ended up going with the Bengals and the 49ers. I picked the Bengals winning 24 to 10. I don't know...
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    (Hypo) Which would have more of an impact for Foundation Black America? Black ppl sweeping the Oscars/Grammies or the 1st Black Fem Sup.Court Justice?

    Neither. Most people don't give a rat's behind about the Grammys today. I don't know a single person who watches it anymore. Who cares about a bunch of rich people patting each other on the backs, black or white. That does nothing for real working people. And politics? That is just a joke. They...