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    What are some signs it is a fetish?

    Damn, I would have done the same! That had to be so awkward. Like no matter how attractive a person is, there is a level of degrading behavior that should just not be acceptable by anyone. I have read things online from both men and women and they settled for being an object because the other...
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    If a Man Pays All the Bills, What Do You Feel a Woman’s Role is in the Relationship?

    Exactly! And I don't know if it is just me or not but I think homemakers are strong and beautiful women. They are supportive, loyal, mind their own and want to make their man happy. I know this kind of life is not for everyone but I am perfectly capable of being happy in it. I would much rather...
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    Do you keep in touch with any childhood friends?

    For sure. Drama queens. I don't have time for them. I have to focus on getting my life on order and productive. Constantly getting involved in other people's drama and problems is so draining too. If you want to keep on the path, you do you but some of us got places to go!
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    COVID-19 Megathread

    So there are some more things coming out that are basically confirming this was a lab leak but with intentions. Supposedly, some whistle-blowers in China are saying they did everything on purpose. They thought "why should our economy be the only one that suffers?" and they did very little to...
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    Diabetes rates in black women nearly double that of white women – WTF?

    Oh I have no issue with them promoting to love your body and accept it as you are but when you accept that you are overweight and do nothing about it, you only gain more weight and end up another statistic. I think the market thing is true as well. Black areas are encouraged to eat at places...
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    Do you keep in touch with any childhood friends?

    All the friends I had growing up either moved away, or I outgrew them. They kind of stayed the same from the age of 16 and stopped maturing. Kept doing the same old thing and making the same old mistakes. I made new friends in college and through work.
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    Diabetes rates in black women nearly double that of white women – WTF?

    I will be honest, it didn’t hit me hard until I saw an article about it and looked into it more. I thought more about it myself because I work at a clinic. I see more black women with this issue than white women and more women in general as compared to men. They say your risk of diabetes...
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    Anyone hear about this?

    Yeah, I have heard of this. There are a few other areas like this as well. I can't remember what place it was but a handful of years back, they had some flooding issues and unearthed some corroded pipe systems that were poisoning people. Water is a very basic thing and should be tested...
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    What are some signs it is a fetish?

    Okay, this makes sense. Like a person can be attracted to a certain race (and have a preference for it over others) but if the focus of the entire person deals with their culture, heritage, or skin color then it is clearly a fetish. I know we can't help who we are attracted to but I also know...
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    Crashing parties and other events

    That is kind of the true definition of crashing right there. Just showing up and not knowing one person. lol I can't say I know anyone who has ever done that. Has to be an interesting thing. I can bet people at these parties are thinking "who knows these people?" lol
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    What are some signs it is a fetish?

    I am an open person. I have dated different types of men be it race, background, height, or weight but it is clear that there are some real weird people out there who look to fetishize these things. I have met men who will only date Asian women (Chinese, Japanese, Korean) and they were white or...
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    I have a sex addiction

    Maybe this is the inner nurse in me but have you considered getting your hormone and blood levels checked out? A lot of men and women who have sex addictions actually have issues with both that can be fixed with diet and medication. It might be worth looking into.
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    Dooms Day Prepping

    That is what sucks! Like unless you have a house where you can stock up a basement, you run out of room so fast. I am probably just going to get one of those water filter jugs that lasts 5 years so I don't have to worry about water. That takes up the most room. Going to stock up on batteries and...
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    Online Privacy

    Yeah and what really made me realize I wasn't the crazy one was when that lizard dude who owns Facebook had his laptop camera covered. If he is covering it, then I can't imagine what he has heard of people doing!
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    Did you date anyone you started to dislike fast?

    A friend of mine said that she used to be friends with someone else he dated but didn't realize it until months after the fact. I guess the dude was very manipulative and controlling in that relationship as well. Some guys just like power tripping.
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    If a Man Pays All the Bills, What Do You Feel a Woman’s Role is in the Relationship?

    I mentioned this in another thread. I don't have a job because I enjoy it. I would much rather be a housewife! I don't care what people think of me. I enjoy cooking and cleaning. Heck, I even want to get into gardening and raising chickens. A lot of women I think feel this way but are too scared...
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    Do you go to yard sales?

    I haven't been back there to find out! lol I am so good on that. Waking up with bites all over me one too many times to step foot back in there. Yeah, this is true. I think this is why it is important for parents to spend time with their kids and do things they can enjoy and be a part of. I...
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    Do you expect your woman to submit to mediocrity?

    I am a pretty feminine woman. I work because I have to, not because I enjoy it or want a career for myself. I would much rather be cleaning, cooking, and raising kids at home while taking care of my man who provides than working but that option has been taken away from us. I can see what you are...
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    Female Rikers guards stripped her naked and felt her up!

    I have heard about stories like this but not in recent years. This is absolutely disgusting. What do they think it is okay because they don't have dicks or something? Like wtf! People in uniforms think they have some sort of immunity or something.
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    Dooms Day Prepping

    Since a few threads got on the topic of survival if ish hits the fan, I thought this could make for a fun discussion. I am fascinated with how the mind works and how humans are capable of doing some pretty insane things when their survival (or their family’s survival) is on the line. What can I...