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  1. equis

    Do we have any true white allies?

    Thanks for the save sis!
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    Do we have any true white allies?

    In order for whites to be our true allies, they have to be comfortable breaking down the system that used us to get them to where they're at. That means forsaking themselves, their ancestors, their families, and more to pay the blood debt. You're not gonna find any whites who are truly going to...
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    80s or 90s???

    The 80s had some good music, but there was definitely an evolutionary boom in the 90s. R&B and Hip Hop took on new life and incorporated regional flavors. New styles and flows were emerging. You started seeing more crossover records between the R&B and Hip Hop Worlds. I feel things got more...
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    Should Aries Spears be attacked for his take on Lizzo and her weight?

    One of the points Lizzo uses to market herself is her weight. If that's the case, naturally, attention and conversations will be had around it. Let the comedian do his thing. I'm tired of seeing people running to the aid of these celebrities, especially ones who put themselves out there for...
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    Tariq Nasheed Gets Visit From FBI

    Doubt there's any refunds. Tariq just gonna Livestream from Cali for the event 😂
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    Just be white

    Most definitely. The light in which we're discussed is completely different than how white men are discussed. We're constantly put in the role of the buck by other races, while white men are seen as a source of stability (even when they're nursing a c*ke habit and are on their third divorce).
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    Just be white

    I think it's a thing of unfortunate conditioning. White men have become a symbol of power and status across the world, so various ethnic groups (especially in East Asia and the Indian Subcontinent) are drawn to white men like flies on sh**.
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    What is a rational thinker? Are women irrational? Do we live in a rational society/world?

    It truly is like a drowning victim. It takes someone skilled in those kinds of emotional manoeuvers to be of any help to them. Many things form these kinds of mindsets. Upbringing of course is a broad term, but you could even look into how the relationship between one's mother and father forms...
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    Where is health at on your dating radar?

    It truly is. The child even being nourished by the mom's diet is something to think about. And the link between diet and the demonstration of self control.
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    Tichina Arnold

    Finally!!!! Though I don't believe in the voting system, this change of mindset is exciting to see. If it ain't black, take it back.
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    Where is health at on your dating radar?

    Eating habits say a lot about a person, so that definitely is an important part of the puzzle. Of course she doesn't have to be eating a Dr. Sebi diet, but everyone I've known who's eaten junk food consistently not only ends up with bad heath, but also has a junky mind. You see what you eat.
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    What is a rational thinker? Are women irrational? Do we live in a rational society/world?

    I came across an interesting channel that discusses the gender wars in interesting light. It was a sister called The Crimson Cure. She divides black folks into two categories. The Lions and Lionesses on one side and the hyenas on the other. The Lions and Lionesses want to stick together and...
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    potpourri, Incense, plug in's, candles, or spray?

    I'm not sure if this is hearsay, but I've heard certain scented candles (especially those from bath and bodyworks) could be carcinogenic and aren't the best for your health. My personal go to is incenses for the scent of course and also that kind of meditative feel of lighting one up and...
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    What is a rational thinker? Are women irrational? Do we live in a rational society/world?

    I think rationality has been taken out of black relationships due to years of programing and the appearance of movements such as feminism, corporate culture, and MGTOW. Men and women in our communities are stepping outside of their roles and have made up ample excuses for it. Many of our sisters...
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    Would you date someone 20+ years older/younger than yourself?

    That's honestly a good point. I feel like in this day and age it's easy to forget the role that biology plays in choosing partners and relationships overall. Many men in their 40s aren't looking for simple "companionship" but to build something stable after growing into themselves. This is some...
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    Would you date someone 20+ years older/younger than yourself?

    I've been noticing a pattern of older men dating very young and I have to agree. I think there's a big issue with them not wanting the damaged women who are around their age. Personally my belief is that as long as there's intentions on the man's part of taking the woman seriously, and they...
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    Moving is Exhausting

    Of course not! Who'd do such a thing?👀
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    Woman called her brothers on her boyfriend and then this happens

    I agree with that point of view. At the end of the day, we've gotta treat people like adults and not put ourselves in harm's way for their decisions. No matter how much you talk to some people or steer them away from these toxic relationships, they always seem to find themselves right back in them.
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    Woman called her brothers on her boyfriend and then this happens

    That's what happens when our solutions to everything is violence against ourselves. The amount of times I've seen sisters get into it with somebody and say they're gonna get their brothers/ father/ uncle/ boyfriend etc on someone and escalate the situation is too high to count. Some situations...
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    Moving is Exhausting

    That's a big thing. Then how to part with things. Selling? Donate? Dump them in your neighbor's garbage?