It feels like now everybody’s an expert on everything no matter what drivel they spew out of their mouth. We are so divided that people choose the opposite side of things just cause. I feel like we can come out talking feed the children somebody else will come through talking bout the hell with...
That’s the way to do it. When I tell people about this strategy they look at me like I’m crazy. Like I said the rewards are just a bonus… it’s that layer of protection over my bank accounts that’s the real benefit.
Yep it’s hard to make a determination on seeing one side of the relationship. The man could be busting paying all of the bills, or it could be one of those things where he does all the yard work. Some women are just old fashioned like that.
People know what they are doing. They are making themselves the indispensable employee and you the dependable one. Not trying to throw a racial element on this board, but these are “white” people tactics. Not saying there aren’t “black” people tactics, but I know what people do. I know when...
I did it, and we are married now. But my situation was totally different. It wasn’t long distance for a long time. I was able to fly in and visit pretty often… Got a job her way and moved. We weren’t really long distance that long.
Keep my ACH‘s to zero. I had some bad experiences with letting companies take money right out of my bank account. Even online I try to use a virtual card to mask my credit card number if I can.
My credit score was in the 500s when I started now it’s at around 680. I feel like I’m more disciplined using credit since I’m so scared to rack up interest. I remember I used to go out and move money around so I could pay when the check came. Now I swipe the card and worry about paying the card...
Thats another reason. I use the Amazon Prime Visa card, but I just got the Verizon Card and using that. I was thinking I could snatch up a free phone every year, but im probably going to go back to the Amazon card. I dont spend that much. I probably rack up $30 or so each month in Rewards. It’s...
I never leave the house, and when I do I leave all masked up. But I still caught it. That’s crazy. WhenI had it I just flat out could not eat. Food just made me gag. Improbably lost about 30 pounds. I never want to go through that again.
About 4 years ago, I had to address the fact that my budgeting skills sucked. I basically had no budget. I just spent how I felt. I would at least check my account balance periodically, but I was stuck in a cycle of overdrafting my account and rushing to switch from savings to avoid the...
Oh I get it.… Honestly, I’v never really been big in the dating game like that. I’m an introvert. I’ve never done those things you’re talking about. We all have a list of turn offs, but it did work out for me. There’s always somebody who’s gonna rise above the filth.
I actually see what @Jay is saying. He ain’t offbase at all. I guess from another point of view men as whole aint all that either. I guess we all have to weed through some stuff to find what we’re looking for. But for real though. Can you elaborate?
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