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  1. Red Velvet

    Ways to get involved in bettering your community?

    Know your neighbors Have influence Create goals and rally people around the goal
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    Your views on abortion, for or against it?

    My body, my choice. Men need to stop thinking they can police woman's bodies.
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    Acrylics/Fake Nails - Classy or Trashy?

    Girl you can only hear "you have boyfriend" so many times. Ming just cut my nails so I can get on with my day. nialongdisbelief
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    Gender Bias In Medicine

    Girl you go to Asians and Indians and get great care, I'm glad you're being taken care of. I try to find an African or Black but always sette on the White girl with the most 5 star ratings.
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    I blame hood rats w/money

    Yes. I think having my dad in the house and showing me the example of how a strong Black man protects and provides helped me build my femininity. Without that, I can see how a woman could feel like she has to live in her masculine energy to survive.
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    Acrylics/Fake Nails - Classy or Trashy?

    When your nails are so long that you start tapping other keys on the keyboard they are too long. I get them as long as the first with either nude or a ombre, never anything over the top. It just takes so long sometimes especially with the nail tech has to take off the old ones.
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    Beyonce has just turned 40 and I feel old

    The most grammy's ever girl!
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    “What are we?”

    Girl, I'm old school if a man wants me then he needs to ask me. If he doesn't man up and lock me down I simply move on. I like men who take initiative and aren't afraid to go for what they want. If he can't ask me for exclusivity how can I trust that he'll ask for the raise or the promotion?
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    I blame hood rats w/money

    I agree but our brothas are not dating other women because of ratchet culture, in my opinion. I honestly believe that many of us harbor too much masculinity energy and it drives our men away. I’ve had times where I was alone with no help and career-driven, those time made me very masculine. I...
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    Ladies, do you keep anything in your purse for self defense?

    I watched video of dad shooting his shotgun and girl when I seen it push him back I knew I wasn’t bout that life. That’s why I need a strong man.
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    Do you have any dating horror stories?

    Yikes. At least he showed his hand quickly. Those love bombing narcissists are the ones that catch you off guard. They start off sweet, attentive, and compassionate and once they got you their fangs come out and they clamp tight. They bring outthe controlling, manipulative , and abusive side and...
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    New York Flooding 2021

    Thank you but no thank you. nialongdisbelief
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    Ladies, do you keep anything in your purse for self defense?

    Girl I keep the mace right next to the Kotex. My dad said he wants to teach me how to shoot when I’m in his town; I don’t know if I’m ready sanaalathanlaugh
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    New York Flooding 2021

    I’m in BK and my family and I are safe but I’m exhausted at this point and looking to relocate. To be honest, I used to downplay global warming but based on the past 5 years I think the impacts of greenhouse gases and etc are wreaking havoc on the Earth’s natural patterns. Anyone here from New...
  15. Red Velvet

    Do you have a creative outlet?

    Impressive. Have you ever played one of those gigantic pipe organs?
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    Ever get injured during a serious fight?

    Were you messing with someone's lady? cmblankstare
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    Can you fight?

    I’ll pull a weave out in a heart beat but I prefer not to fight. I have not fought since high school.
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    The housing system is broken how do we fix it?

    This is in non-metro areas too. In some cities in NY, CA, and FL you need to be over 100k to realistically afford to live in a nice area and have any quality of life. snoopdisappointment
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    Have you ever done one of those DNA tests?

    I can’t believe you gave them your DNA Black man.