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    Do you think we need more black doctors?

    I don't know if anyone noticed this in their area or not but I work for a clinic and I have to tell you, there are not many black doctors around here. We have one in the entire clinic I work at and this is amongst something like 20 doctors or something. Like I have nothing against doctors of...
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    So Much For That Black and Brown Coalition...

    She goes on and on and says a whole lot of nothing. These types of people are a dime a dozen. They rant and don't really ever get to a point. Like if she is comfortable with her world outlook, let her have it but don't be out there trying to push this stuff on other people simply because you...
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    Black Female police officer asked to have an abortion to keep her job

    This world is sick. I am all for women having a choice even though I don't agree with abortion, it is not the state's call on this but to point-blank tell a woman she needs to abort her baby or she might lose her job, wtf!!
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    Are you competitive when it comes to gaming?

    I can be and have been but I mostly play for fun so if I am playing something and not doing the best, I can still enjoy myself. I know for a lot of guys, this is a hard task. Like if you keep losing, you likely won't be having fun. My ex was like this. He would legit get mad at me when we'd be...
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    These GFX cards are getting spendy

    Yup! I heard they have gone up another 10% or more. I know the one I have on my PC was $150 or so when I bought it and it is selling for over $500. Might be closer to $700 at this point. The chip shortage and issues with shipment and cargo are causing a lot of these prices to skyrocket.
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    Have you ever been stood up?

    I got stood up but a guy I was dating on several occasions. After the 5th or 6th time, I sent him a text and just told him I am too old to be playing these games and we are done. I don't know what people think when they do this. Like if you can't commit to some plans, don't make them!
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    Know anyone who keeps going back to the same person?

    I know a few. One is actually a daughter and father. She hates her date but she mimicked his relationship patterns to a T! He would date someone for a while, have issues with them, the relationship would end badly and they'd move on but they would remain "friends". He would go through a handful...
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    What's the real problem with forgiveness?

    I do think everything is connected on some level. One individual to another, an individual to an animal, an animal to a plant, etc. and that is likely why we become so emotional over different things and often find ourselves in a place where reasoning with certain actions without fear or anger...
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    Think Trump is going to end up running in 2024?

    That is one of his biggest issues. He is all about his self-image. He doesn't care if people trash him and I have to give him credit for that. He took a lot of that for a good 5 years and still running. Most people would have snapped... But he seems to have egged a lot of it on, especially on...
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    Anyone here own reptiles?

    It does seem best to feed them live food cause that is what they know. I can't imagine it is as good for them to feed them frozen food, even if it is thawed out.
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    What did you dress up as for Halloween growing up?

    When you were growing up, assuming you went trick or treating, what were some of the things you dressed up as? My mom did a lot of my costumes when I was a small child which I am thankful for now more than I was back then. She would ask me what I would want to be and she would make me...
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    What's the real problem with forgiveness?

    Forgiveness is a powerful thing and I think people overlook that forgiving someone else of their wrong-doing is actually more beneficial for the person who was hurt, betrayed, etc. than the actual person who is being forgiven. I know when I hold unforgiveness in my heart, it turns me cold and I...
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    Why would you even put your child in this situation?

    This is borderline abuse. No screw that, this IS abuse. How can you do this to a young child and think it is funny? I don't get why people do stupid ish and put it online like they are proud of it. You know damn well most people are thinking this is f'd up.
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    Dealing with anxiety and the past

    I think we have all hurt people in one way or another. I know I have. Some people are willing to accept apologies, and others just don't want to hear it. We can't stay in the past though hoping things will change. We have to be willing to move forward, even if those from our pasts are not...
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    Have you ever cheated?

    Same. I mean I am a horrible liar on top of it so I would have the guilt pushing through and I would likely look guilty 24/7. I would end up having to confess. It is just better to end the relationship at that point.
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    Anyone here own reptiles?

    I heard ball pythons are pretty chill so long as you care for them properly but they aren't cheap when it comes to enclosures and food. I did handle one before but it was only a baby. I was helping a friend feed it. Didn't want to do live mice so they were doing frozen pinkies and the snake...
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    Would you live on Mars?

    I wouldn't want to go to Mars but if I had no choice, I would likely do the same. I mean I can't imagine they's have internet up and running right away. Have to have offline entertainment. I would bring a lot of art supplies as well.
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    Apple Fixed Everything That Sucked in the MacBook Pro

    Probably just a marketing thing then that tricked them. I never used one so I have no clue. Either way, they make their sales off a lot of college students!
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    Just Pre Ordered Newest Call Of Duty

    Not on the PS5 yet? My brother is still having trouble finding one so he has been stuck with his PS4 for a while. I haven't played CoD in years. I feel like the games went downhill for a while. Same thing, different issues every year and all that. I can't say I have fully enjoyed one to the...
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    Apple Fixed Everything That Sucked in the MacBook Pro

    I never liked apple computers but I know they are solid for anyone who works with video, music, or graphics. A friend of mine who is going to school right now for graphic design and video editing said everyone in the class is rocking a MacBook but like one person. lol