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  1. sourgrapes

    LAN Parties, even been to one?

    This might be a bit embarrassing but I hung out with some nerds in my late teens. We'd have WoW sessions. LOL I saved up for my first computer and got it when I was 18 and started playing it. I thought it was stupid but then I really got into it. I stopped playing a few years after I started. It...
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    How much of your dating life do you share with friends?

    I know some like this as well, work with a few. I am like girl you need to stop talking to me and talk to your man. lol I don't share much with people. I like to keep things private. I think that is just being respectful.
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    Modern white degeneracy irl and on the internet.

    It is an identity crisis. I wish I could find it but one of them was legit pretending to eat their dead neighbor's dog... They believed they were a wolf. There is a lot of them. It freaks me out that teens and people in their 20s are running around thinking this way.
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    Anyone here ever join the military?

    I don't even think it is 5%, at least not in the US. It is like 3% and trans people don't even make up a full %. They are going to screw up so much of this country as if it doesn't already have problems. I really feel like this is on purpose and I am not opposed to blaming China for it. They put...
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    Patterson, NJ School Lunches Worse Than Prison

    Absolutely. I didn't realize it until I was older but she looked out more for me than a lot of other parents out there. It is a damn shame kids have to grow up eating this trash. The school systems are a mess.
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    Modern white degeneracy irl and on the internet.

    I'm talking about otherkins... This one thinks he/she is a dragon: This one... a wolf: hhhdisgust
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    Do you have a fish tank?

    What do you have in your 50 right now? How often do you have to clean it and stuff? I always loved salt water tanks but those fish are so dang expensive that I'd have to have a funeral everytime one died lol
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    Do you have a fish tank?

    I am going to look into this more for sure then. I want to do more live plants. I'd probably get more shrimp since they maintain the plants and stuff. I saw some really cool set-ups on YouTube where they balance everything out so cleaning is very minimal. You just have to establish the right...
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    What do you think are the keys to a successful marriage?

    Exactly. Any place can become a dating spot if two people are into each other. I can bet there have been relationships formed on most major/big sites that allow communication between guests or members.
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    Do you hold any traditional values when it comes to relationships?

    I am fairly traditional. I believe the man should be the financial supplier and the woman should be the homemaker. This is not to say this is how it can work out for everyone. In many cases, both people in the relationship need to work. Some women want careers as well and there is nothing wrong...
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    Do you have a fish tank?

    I have a small 20-gallon tank. Been keeping it going for almost 3 years now. I have some of that moss growing on a piece of wood in there, looks like a small tree. I have a few other live plants as well. I did have gravel and half soil. I am considering upgrading and getting a larger one but I...
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    What Would You Do...?

    I am not sure what I would do but this dude has some issues for sure. Be it with an individual or multiple people. I am just glad he takes it out in a virtual game... But what if that switch gets flipped? It always freaks me out seeing stuff like this.
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    Modern white degeneracy irl and on the internet.

    You ever been on Tumblr? LOL There are people who legit think they are animals trapped in human bodies. Not once did I see a black person do this. It is always some weird white person with colored hair and 20 different genders. I feel like this is what an identity crisis looks like. There are...
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    Patterson, NJ School Lunches Worse Than Prison

    My mom always packed my lunch. It didn't matter how nice the food looked, she didn't trust the school to be investing that much in healthy nutrition. I can get schools like this are way worse than the one I went to as well. That just looks and sounds terrible.
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    The 1960s - Over 40% of black families owned their own businesses, what happened?

    I never understood this. Like what the hell happened? Hard work is needed to run and manage a business, did people just get lazy or something? I am by no means qualified to manage a business and I likely wouldn't be able to handle the stress but I feel like I was raised under the presumption...
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    Anyone here ever join the military?

    Qualifications don't matter. They care more about what you have in your pants and what you do with it. I heard about gay dudes getting promotions and outranking more qualified men simply because they were gay. It is pathetic. Qualifications, skills, and health need to matter not gender or sexual...
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    What Do You Bring To The Table?

    I don't envy people in this position! Not by a long shot.
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    Dating older women (cougars)

    I think retaining your inner-youth is important. Like being able to play and have fun into your adult years and maintain that is better for your emotional and mental health. This is probably why people who have kids are generally happier than those who don't. Kids keep you in touch with your...
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    What do you think are the keys to a successful marriage?

    I think dating apps and sites have a lot of flaws. I would wager we'd have more success on online communities like this one. Like-minded people coming together, forming online relationships that can become something more as we get to know each other. Anytime I hear of a successful couple in real...
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    Diamond D On Why Fat Joe GetsnAn N-Word Pass

    True. Action is more important than speech. If we can respect ourselves and other people respect themselves, it just becomes better as a whole for a community and in general for society.