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    Do you think social media is creating less fulfilling relationships?

    I been thinking about this for a while. It seems like a lot of people come and go from relationships like chewed bubblegum these days. I can't help but make the connection to social media. Like where people go to get validation and feel-good hormones released and soon as it wears out, they need...
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    Asexual relationships

    I will be real with you, I don't need sex to be happy. I don't not like it but I can live without it. Maybe that is just cause I have matured and reached a point in my life where I value things differently. I am not sure. I don't know anyone who chooses this kind of relationship though where...
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    Make Someone Fall In Love With You

    I was with a guy who did this. He roped me in. At first, I didn't even want to be in a relationship with him, 2 years pass and I find myself thinking wtf am I doing here? He would build me up with words and knock me down with them, all the time. So many women fall for this too, especially...
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    Would you be cool with your wife/gf doing porn or having an onlyfans?

    Exactly! You can't respect her much less yourself if you allow it. What is that term they throw around online these days? "Cuck"? When a dude is a complete clown and lets his woman do as she pleases. I think that is the word. I feel like more and more of these men are coming out of the woodwork...
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    Do you have any secrets you've kept from your partner?

    From exes in my earlier years, absolutly! I wasn't expecting anything long-term nor had any direction for myself at the time. I wasn't going to risk everything about me being let out when he decides he is bored with me or something.
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    Family Members Getting Married

    I have a few people in my family who have gotten engaged or married already and they are younger than me. The youngest being 22 and married, she is expecting her first child. She married a man (Italian, he immigrated to the US when he was 13) who is 10 years older but has his own business and...
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    Would you be cool with your wife/gf doing porn or having an onlyfans?

    I wouldn't be fine with my partner being okay with me doing these things much less doing them myself. What kind of man is okay with this? (no offense) Like if you are just interested in a passive relationship that focuses more on fun and sex, I guess this is fine but if you want a legit wifey...
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    What are your thoughts on the things happening in Australia, Germany, Austria, etc.?

    I know for a lot of people, everything that is going on is making an even bigger push for things like crypto. The government already has their grubby fingers in it though through filing taxes. I feel like it is only a matter of time because it just becomes another tool they use against us.
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    Kinks and Fetishes

    I thought I would make a thread for this. I know some people have some mild/tame kinks and fetishes and some people out there act all kinds of nasty. I don't like to kink shame though and I try my best not to. So long as what you are doing is legal, with consent, and in the privacy of your own...
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    Laundry

    Damn you really do love feet, don't ya? LOL I am very particular about my clothes. I started washing my own from the age of 12. No offense to men, but I don't trust them enough not to mess up with something. I have had an ex ruin an expensive dress I had cause he just tossed it in on a regular...
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    An island of homosexuals doesn't die off…

    I don't go into great depths on this cause I know there are people who use things to cause harm and confusion toward gay, lesbian, bisexual, and trans people... That being said, they (the LGBT+) is starting to target gay men saying they are ruining it for them. In particular, white gay men. It...
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    If Omicron variant comes to the US, think another lockdown will happen?

    I have always said the fact that they have immunity from lawsuits makes them untrustworthy. A friend of mine said we all need to start writing up contracts for our employers that state since the vaccine is being forced on us, then the company accepts all financial and legal responsibilities. So...
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    What are your thoughts on the things happening in Australia, Germany, Austria, etc.?

    These three spots among a few others have declared forced lockdowns in "camps" for people who are not vaccinated, for people who have come into contact with those who tested positive (regardless of vax status), as well as people that are causing "issues". People are coming out in different...
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    If Omicron variant comes to the US, think another lockdown will happen?

    So I will say it, I saw a study that is now suggesting these mRNA vaccines do attach to DNA and no one knows if it is permanent or not nor the long-term health effects or consequences of it. None of this is sounding good. I have no issues with science or vaccines but trusting something that is...
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    What's your limit to how many kids you want?

    I am considering adoption as well but looking into the cost and the process, the US does not make it easy or cheap. That needs to be fixed for sure. This is why so many kids grow old in the system. If it was more affordable and an easier process, more families would adopt. Especially since women...
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    Females Are Strange

    I mean it will toughen her up. Looking back at all the times my mom embarrassed me in public, I think man that was on her not me. Why was I the one feeling embarrassed? lol
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    School shooter parents caught

    I think it depends on the context. Because the government and the media want to take away guns, cases like this will often get brushed under the rug. We are seeing it on two levels here, one where it is a kid and his no-name parents and a world-famous actor, both white and both are not being...
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    If Omicron variant comes to the US, think another lockdown will happen?

    Did someone actually get a hold of a vax vial and prove it had graphene and nanoparticles in it? Here in the US, we are already considered property to the government. That is what our SSN is. It is our serial number. I read about this stuff like this years ago. One thing deals with your name...
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    Do you use a smartwatch?

    Curious to see who here uses them and if you all do, how much. I am seeing more and more people wearing them non-stop. I had one and didn't use it much. I ended up dropping it in a pool last year and never replaced it. Was considering it but eh. I am not sure if I would make use of it or not...
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    Dating

    Exactly but the way she went on and on about it, she needs to grow up too. If a dude did this to me, I would just shoot him a text saying "nah I am good on Sunday or any other day, your loss" and move on. She just looking to get attention from other women online saying "you go girl" or "you...