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    Do you think people are destined to fall out of love?

    If you go into a relationship with the idea and the concept of "falling in love" then yes. I don't believe in falling in love, I believe in falling in lust. It is healthy and very natural for people to have this happen but you can't put love and lust on the same platform. Love is commitment and...
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    How would you handle your partner gaining weight?

    I like the honest approach for sure. I feel like I wouldn't have any issues if it was under 30 pounds. On the right frame with some height, could probably go up to 50. Men tend to be able to carry more weight without it showing as much as women. I think this is down to how it is gained though...
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    Do you like the snow or no?

    I am probably one of the few people in my area that actually enjoys it. I like cold weather. Most people around here complain though. I like watching the snowfall. It is nice having my candles lit and looking outside at night seeing it fall. It is relaxing to me. I don't like driving in it when...
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    Mulattoes Who Pass For White - The Phil Donahue Show

    You look at this from all those years back and we still have the same issues. Mixed kids grow up being segregated by both whites and blacks. This is why I always tell people who are in a mixed relationship to REALLY consider things before having kids.
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    Pills for Covid are coming

    You all see what these companies made from the vaccines? They want to make as much money as possible before the economy goes belly up. This isn't about health. Pfizer got sued out the behind in 2009, the biggest lawsuit in history, for lying and bribery as well as covering up known...
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    Tekashi 6ix9ine's GF: I'm 25 And Have No Job... "All I Know How To Do Is Sell This P***y"

    If this was the mid to late '90s, the dude would have been shot for being a snitch. That being said, mindless men attract mindless women. None of this surprises me. Any woman with two brain cells to rub together would not be in any kind of relationship with that trainwreck.
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    If Omicron variant comes to the US, think another lockdown will happen?

    Can you explain why or how? I am curious. I mean I haven't seen them do much of anything but target their own people. Maybe I am out of the loop on something.
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    Narcissists Are Everywhere

    You watch Futurama? It will be like the Eye Phone. Everyone will be walking around sharing their "experiences".... I do not look forward to that reality.
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    Pills for Covid are coming

    I do my best to not take any medication unless absolutely needed. Working in a clinic and seeing how many pills people are on these days is scary. All of them have side effects, especially with long-term use. I got my two shots. Now they are asking me to get another one. I sure hope the US stops...
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    Haircare tips?

    Has anyone ever try coconut oil? I was considering doing a coconut oil mask when I was reading up on it the other day. I just feel like that might be a pain to rinse out. I mean if I don't overdo it, I could probably just leave it in but I don't want to leave a mess on my sheets or clothes or...
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    If Omicron variant comes to the US, think another lockdown will happen?

    I am more worried about China and Russia than I am about France though, let's be real they don't seem like much of a threat based on history lol
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    $7.4 billion spent on Friday

    For sure. I am guilty of this myself. I have boughten things without realizing what I was spending cause I was not in a budget mindset. I think people who are newer to shopping online fall for this and spend way too much. I try to focus on shopping around and finding the best deals while also...
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    Friends who set you up on a date without first telling you

    I think some people just take things upon themselves cause in their own world, they know best and they think they are helping. Most people hate being set up on dates, especially if you don't ask them first. Like I can't imagine one of my friends just showing up with some dude and expecting me to...
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    Ever do an all-nighter?

    Yeah, I can't afford to mess it up either at this point cause I am finally on a stable schedule (for the most part) with work. I don't want to get to a place where my sleep gets butchered again and I have no energy for anything outside of work.
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    Know anyone who married just for the benefits that come with it?

    You would think they would know what they are signing up for but most of them don't. Hard to feel pity for a man who falls for this mess.
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    Chiptune/8bit music

    I'm into all this kind of music. I think this is from growing up playing video games. It almost relaxes me in a way. A bit nostalgic, it almost takes me back to my youth where worrying about the stresses of life didn't exist.
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    How would you handle your partner gaining weight?

    I see it all the time. Couples get comfy with each other and they put on weight. Sometimes it is both, sometimes it is only one. In cases where it is only one, how would you handle it if your partner put on weight? Would you care/would it bother you? If so - How would you approach letting them know?
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    Know anyone who married just for the benefits that come with it?

    My mother's friend who is white married a man who basically married her out of pity. He had a decent job with good insurance. He felt bad for her and wanted to marry her so she could get insurance among other things. The sad part is, she had no idea. He ended up getting some medical procedure...
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    Dating a woman who also is into women

    I have a bisexual friend and I can tell you, any time she has been in a relationship with a man, it always went south. Why? Cause he gets greedy. He wants two women. Guess what? When he starts stressing her out, she singles him out and started going to the woman more and more, and eventually...
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    Haircare tips?

    What are some haircare things you learned over the years worth sharing? I am always looking for new ways to keep my natural hair strong and healthy. This can be for both women and men. We all have to take care of our hair and keep things healthy.