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    Pandora Papers

    They want to have control so they don't have to order us to do what they want by force. A lot of people, out of fear, will follow their orders willingly when they realize they won't have access to food, water, shelter, or electricity. Heck, the internet is probably enough for some people to just...
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    Ladies, If you could only have one out of a man, what would it be: Excitement or Consistency?

    Same! I am all for being lead but I want a leader who can allow me to flourish with my guard down and not have to worry. I was with a guy who had me acting like a crazy person in the past. I just couldn't trust him so both of us ended up unhappy.
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    Being friends first?

    That is basically what I mean here. You don't put sexual stuff on the table. You keep the romance and everything under lock until you get to know each other more and care for each other without it altering your perception. We often will get gaslighted by our own self-will because the romance...
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    Being friends first?

    I always liked the concept of being friends with someone first before dating them. It establishes a bond without the entanglements of lust, romance, and infatuation. It doesn't come easy though. Most of the time, you will know if you are interested in making something more or not right away and...
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    Are you giving your man what he needs and wants or are you giving him what YOU think he needs and wants?

    In my experience, I'd like to say I know what they need but I really don't have a clue. I am not a man. I just know what I should focus on as a woman to have a stable relationship. Assuming I am with the right man, me being loyal, affectionate, caring, and willing to make his home life the best...
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    love at first sight

    I believe in lust at first sight. I think lust plays a heavy role in the start of any relationship but lust comes and goes. I like the concept of there being different types of love but the ultimate form of love is a choice. A choice to be with someone, care for them and have their back. The...
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    Ladies, If you could only have one out of a man, what would it be: Excitement or Consistency?

    Consistency. I have been with exciting and unpredictable men and I am too old to be dealing with the drama that comes with it. I am looking for a man to settle down with and start a family. If ladies enjoy chasing the wild and free stallions, that is on them. They can have that rodeo! lol I...
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    Do you do anything on/for Halloween?

    When I was younger, I would dress up and go door to door for candy. Standard childhood experience. As an adult, I really don't do anything. I am not into the party scene and as much as I do enjoy dressing up, I am not down to go to parties. If I happen to work on Halloween, I will wear some...
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    Do you believe in ghosts and the paranormal?

    I believe in demons. Anything you can see on this planet that isn't in the physical realm is a demon, to me at least. I don't want anything to do with them. I have seen some "familiar spirits" and have been attacked before. Not a fun time. Was sleeping at a friend's house and was being pulled...
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    Harmattan's Funniest Home Videos

    Never had moose meat. I had ostrich though. I do not recommend that. That meat is fowl... Pun slightly intended. lol As for that moose, I would not want to mess around with him. I have seen some pretty jacked-up bucks around here and I just turn right around when I see them at the park. lol
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    Two Pitbulls finally attack the right person

    I hate that most places will put dogs down for doing the work. Like the only reason I want a dog is for protection. If someone breaks into my house, I fully expect that mf'er to go all-out wolf mode and make a meal out of the intruder. That is why I like the working class dogs. They are heavy on...
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    Biden Signs Last Minute Deal To Avert A Government Shutdown, And Gives Away Our Reparations In The Process.

    Two wings, same bird. Been saying it for years. The dems want to rob the poor to feed the rich and the reps want to get a little taste of the wealth while appearing to be more presentable with "integrity". I don't trust anyone in this government. Even someone with the best intentions gets...
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    Pandora Papers

    Did anyone hear about this? Someone I know mentioned it and I was looking into it more. I can't say I am surprised. What worries yet fascinates me is this mention of a "shadow economy". I always felt like there were things going on that we everyday people have no clue about. The fact that the...
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    A good brand of leather sneakers for men?

    Those do look nice but I think he is more after sneaker style shoes rather than boots. Something like this:
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    LAN Parties, even been to one?

    You're right. I mean these days, it isn't a "nerd" thing to play video games, enjoy anime, be into comics, have a tech hobby, and so on. I feel like 10 years ago it still was considered a bad or off-putting thing but times have def changed. I mean I know some grown adults who are into things...
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    A good brand of leather sneakers for men?

    I want to get my brother a pair for his birthday. He is turning 30 at the end of the month. I know he has always wanted a solid pair of leather sneakers but I have no clue who makes what and what is the best when it comes to men's sneakers. Anyone got some suggestions?
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    Harmattan's Funniest Home Videos

    That bull's cup runneth over, that was his downfall! I have seen this with other animals mating/breeding. If they get too spoiled with choice, they can't concentrate. It is in them to spread the seed but that seed runs thin if they are looking to crop up too many fields LOL
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    Harmattan's Funniest Home Videos

    I am more of a cat person but if I had to choose a dog, it would be a German Shepherd. I mean all German working dogs are legit but nothing tops a German Shepherd for me. My gran had one when I was growing up and I loved that dog. Always begged my mom to get one. She ended up letting me get a...
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    LAN Parties, even been to one?

    Nah I never played them but they look fun, I'll check them out. I have been trying to find a new FPS game to get into. The last one I was playing on the regular was DOOM 2016. The older I get, the pickier I get with my games. I have limited free time so I want the games I play to be worth the time.
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    Anyone here ever join the military?

    The numbers are definitely inflated. I am sure the LGBT people are more prevalent in places like San Fran or just Cali in general but still. I know there are not a lot of them and yet everything we say and do we need to constantly keep them in mind. I get that they are a minority but in the US...