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    TBA: Biden Lost the Black Vote in VA - Now What?

    I'm sorry but if you are black and voted for Biden in the first place, you haven't been paying any bit of attention to the dude in politics. Younger folks get a mild pass but people over 35 should know better. I am just saying. The way the voting landed in Virginia is no surprise to me. Gas...
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    I Refuse To Be In Fear In My Own House

    My auntie had a rotty that showed his teeth on the regular and I didn't feel comfortable being at her house. I don't know what it was with him, but I didn't trust him. He just would get this look in his eye. Like no thanks.
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    Do you believe aliens are real?

    Kyrie Irving believes it is possible (or at least did). People are out there who feel that way. I am fine with it. Like, believe what you want. It is healthy to explore and learn about the planet even if it is through conspiracies and random theories. Just don't push it on kids and I have no issue.
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    You Eating At Em's Spot?

    Food is food and if it is good, I will eat it but based on what I have seen of the menu and the pricing, the dude is overcharging on a lot of stuff. Not sure what to make of his food joint though. Seems a bit random.
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    Dating Is Weird

    In the beginning, the relationship is still fresh and it is a compliment without words. But after a while, it can just be annoying if it is done all the time. I don't know, some of us women are weird. lol
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    Keep Eating At Popeyes

    You could be right. I still think he did a good thing and just went about it the wrong way. As you said, he should have recorded it and handed it over to someone else. Like maybe get a local news station involved. They eat that stuff up.
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    Did you fall in love with someone who didn't share the love back?

    Exactly! This is why I always tell female coworkers and friends they need to really value their time and not waste it messing around with clowns. Too many dudes take advantage of the fact that they aren't the ones having children.
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    Hood culture is not black culture...

    For sure. I really do feel like for some people, casual commitment is the best road but not for most. Most women and most men need to feel desired and appreciated by one partner. I think you are right that these emotions and feelings don't happen until people hit their 30s which is somewhat of a...
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    Cheater Story

    We can only hope she learned from this experience to not only value herself more but value the time she spends on others. Time, after all, is the be-all-end-all currency in our lives. You can spend it but you can't ever get it back.
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    Did you fall in love with someone who didn't share the love back?

    A man I dated a few years back, I was falling for him. I am not one to through "I love you" around but I did tell him I did. He didn't say it back. I was a bit hurt by it but he did say he isn't there yet. A few months go by and I tell him again and he says the same thing. I broke up with him by...
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    Could you live life without being in a relationship?

    Short term yeah, long term no. I like my space but I also want to have a family and someone to grow old with. I don't like the idea of riding out my 50's and beyond alone.
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    Dating Is Weird

    I hate to say it but I have gotten like this. Like I don't like to be butt smacked after a while but if he doesn't do it, then I think negative things. I think a lot of us women have been conditioned into some weird ways of thinking lol
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    Culture Vultures

    I am sure this is true for some of them but not all of them. I don't like to generalize cause I know what that feels like to have it done to me. I have friends of all backgrounds but they got good heads on them and don't do this mess.
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    Keep Eating At Popeyes

    True he should have known but still, it is messed up. That man is a hero of the public in that area. I can't imagine the state of everything upon further inspections.
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    "Face Stretched To Africa"

    They are intimidating but so intelligent and I think that factors in for me. I did have a parakeet growing up and I loved him. One of my brothers got the little guy swearing somehow and boy was my mom fuming over that! LOL He would say "What you doing?" when you would come by his cage and he'd...
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    Hood culture is not black culture...

    If a woman wants to sell her body, she can you are right and that is her call but acting like you deserve the husband, the kids, and the house while doing it makes no sense. If you act like a hoe, you will end up getting treated like one. I don't hold that against men. That is on the women. It...
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    Pure breed or mutt/mix?

    That is the downside of pure breeds. They all come with higher risks of health issues and tend not to live as long. This is why you want to go with a certified breeder. I had a bad experience as a child where we adopted a dog from a "breeder" who claimed to be legit but was just a backyard...
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    Culture Vultures

    They lost their own culture and heritage. That is their fault. They need to do some DNA testing and get back to their own roots instead of trying to steal from other people. Just my take on it anyways. Not all of them do it but those who do get attention for it which makes it worse.
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    The White Money Behind Phony "Black" Media

    I feel like a lot of black people sell out for money and fame today and they don't care about being used as pawns by these totalitarians. I really don't trust any white person who is in a position of power, likely why I never trusted the government. These days though, you can't even trust blacks...
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    Virginia Election

    Someone legit said the reason Sears won was because of white supremacy. These dems are so out of touch it is laughable. Republican or not, she seems to have a good head on her shoulders. I hope she does good.